Hey guys. The boy and I are planning on heading up to NYC in July for my big 30th birthday. I have been once before but he hasn't. We are both artsy fartsy so museums and shit are high on our list but where I need advice is with nightlife. I would really like to find a laid back place to listen to some blues... Read More
I am single again.... don't know if its for good... burying my sorrow in a big glass of wine. I don't do single well. I should go reply to all you nice people in the "Dating Sucks!" forums but I haven't gotten up energy.
Blah. I had to cut out the majority of my caffeine intake... my heart started going ape-shit and now I'm always... Read More
Are you doing okay? You have been gone and leave with questions over your health. I wish you the best, remember you are a mommy, slow down a little for your babies.
irony
i recently got out of a relationship with a single mother of two
but i found her to be immature and neglectant
she seemed that shed rather get hammered than watch the kids
so i can relate from the single non parent perspective of your boyfriend
and simultaneously your perspective that he wants to be wild and spontaneous
it seems to me that he love who you are
but hes not in love with you and your life
great guy or not, doesnt nescessarily mean it will work out
The problem is most young man are inmature and can not handle reality. The realityis that you are a single mother and have to kids. If he loves you then he most love what you bring to the table. It would have been great if he had met you prior to have two kids but he did not. I could possible understan his problem if you had hidden the kids for the last two years and oh by the way I have two kids are you ready to move in with me. But he has been apart of their life and they have grown attached to him. Normally, what I see the problem being is most young man have a preset idea what kind of family they would like to have and raising someone else children is not in the picture. Normally, older men who have raised their kids do not have a problem dating women with children because they already have children of their own and do care if they have any more. They also have a tendency to look at it as they are your children and not theirs so they really have no responibility in raising them. It take a special person to held raise someone elses children and I hope you find Mr Right.
The office where I work has a pretty well stocked kitchen for us to munch and drink throughout the day and in that kitchen is the most ADORABLE oven. Its rather small (but we dont need a big one) and its really really old - but is in perfect working condition. I am always the first one at work so the other week I snagged... Read More
Welcome back. So sorry to hear about your health problems but you're still young and nothing is insurmountable. From one romantic to another...nothing wrong with it, you can't help who you are. I'm sure you will find Mr Right soon, I mean who could resist you!!
Sooo I have a new best friend... well kinda. My sister has joined the air force and now my one and only sibling will be moving to another country. She has passed onto me her most adorable dog. I have 2 cats and 2 kids so I never really had time for a dog - but now that I have one I really have no... Read More
oh, I am taking advantage of having the place to myself. I ma a music junkie who was never able to get his fix while at home so that cd player is going all the time now. I am living in the house while the divorce is going on so not really doing much to the place really, just waiting for the decree to come on and it goes on the market.
I breifly dated right after the wife and I separated, someone I knew pretty well already, that was filled with lots of problems so I could only imagine how dating anyone else would be just totally crazy for know. Yeah the entire prospect of so much changing made me stay in the marriage longer than i really should have, i recall it took a while for you to make the final decision to leave as well a few years ago.
My dogs are outside, but i have four cats the ex didn't take with her and three of them are on the bed every night. The fourth is to bitchy to get along with the others. lol
yesterday i dropped my kids of to be with their dad for the christmas holidays and it broke my heart. today he emails me showing me pictures of how he took my 4 and 6 year olds to get hair cuts. My 6 year old had very long beautiful hair and my 4 year old... Read More