Okay so I think that anyone I am with should love me and be with me for that reason alone. if they ever cannot deal with me they are free to do as they must for their own happiness. I do not want to own anyone or live my life to the definitions of others. I do not need my love and relationship justified by others. I do not need to sanctified or business like. I just need to love and be loved. I want to share my life with those who wish to share theirs with me.