defendtucson

A lot has been going on lately. I’ve been just spending time with my son, working, and working out. It’s been a crazy couple of months. I ended up going to MEPS and was cleared medically and physically for military service. I then interviewed with a squadron here in Tucson with the Air National Guard. I was hired and now I’m just getting the process...
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So I’ve posted on the past about my current journey. I went through a really ugly beak up last year and it really kick started a new life for me. I know this all sounds so cliche and lame but it really did help me a lot. I made it my goal to get back in shape and drop the excess weight I was carrying
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Life has been crazy lately. I was dating a girl for a few months and that dissolved as quick as it started. She was just not wanting to accept that I have a good (plutonic) relationship with my ex wife who is the mother of my son. I’m friend with not just her but her current husband. My ex also didn’t like that I don’t...
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I’m still hitting the gym like crazy. It’s been nice. I’m starting to see the results I want but I’ve got a long way to go. I was having a good “quad day” the other day as well :) I also changed my profile picture since the previous one was like 6 years old. A little more updated now.

Don’t click if you don’t want to see chubby naked dude.

starting to like what I see in the mirror. I know it’s not perfect but I’m consistently working on myself and I like the direction it’s going. I’m still struggling with feeling alone but I’m trying to keep those thoughts at bay. I try to be positive and I’m trying to find more healthy
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It’s been about a month since I found out my ex was cheating on me back in September and that the entire time we were “working on things” she was dating another guy while stringing me along. It’s been a crazy emotional month. I have my good days and my bad. I’ve been on one date since then and it wasn’t great. I miss having
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