How are we supposed to know what to look for in another person? What are the useful criteria? Do you want someone who's exactly like you? Or someone who's nothing at all like you? Neither of these seem like good ideas. Of course it's somewhere in between, but what are the boundaries of that?
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I am back to this not-so-hidden corner of enchanted land 
codemonkeym:
Con Somoza Paz! 
Or something?
Or something?
codemonkeym:
No contaba con mi astucia! 
One of the unanticipated downsides of living alone is that there's no one here to talk to when you wake up from a really bad dream.
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codemonkeym:
Hello, gorgeous!
I love Brazil!
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codemonkeym:
Are nooks made for nookie?
codemonkeym:
Thanks for the advice!
i am tired as can be yet, cant sleep. My mind is in a twist I am always thirsty and a bit on the neurotic side.. I need to sleep...
I think jealousy is getting the best of me... this cant do me any good.... any advise?
any advise?
inkcasualty:
the green eyes monster is a deadly one to deal with...more so if it is justified....got your image on the 60 year old men in the wolf masks....follow the logic now and no doubt I'll not sleep tonight...do discuss the jealousy issue.....
inkcasualty:
get the issue out on the table..FAST! There is nothing psycho about concern over a clingy ex...ever...it is a true sign of an unresolved issue....better to hurt a little now than to have your heart shattered later.....sounds hard but it's true. It's possible your guy may not even be aware of what his ex is playing, so, once again, that is why it must bebrought out into the open. Hope this is of some help.
Need to write paper... need to write paper... 
... Yesterday I was lost downtown for 4 hours i have never been so frustrated in my life... but now i am home and safe
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inkcasualty:
what is it about the men in wolf masks?
soeffinhappy:
Why do city designers always think it's a good idea to make EVERY street downtown a one way street?
Things just keep moving along...
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soeffinhappy:
I hope they're moving in a good direction
mathematics:
well, i'm back!!! vacation was awesome. be sure to let me know before your account expires, ok!!! 
hey, if you're not too busy still, maybe we can hang out some time.
hey, if you're not too busy still, maybe we can hang out some time. You give me names I never had, and now belong. My heart accelerates, my chest billows just as I hear your lips murmur these given names. I found my home in you, I found in you what I always needed and wouldnt admit. You give me meaning, you bring harmony to my cacophony of a world, I hope I bring you symphony.
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mathematics:
i know, i was just playing with you. we're not close i guess. we don't talk much. he's coming today with his wife and son. i actually have to pick them up at the airport in about an hour or so. it's gonna be cool, they'll be here for a week.
we're not close i guess. we don't talk much. he's coming today with his wife and son. i actually have to pick them up at the airport in about an hour or so. it's gonna be cool, they'll be here for a week.
soeffinhappy:
Never read that book but I'll take it as a compliment.
LOVE.--This is the great instrument and engine of nature, the bond and cement of society, the spring and spirit of the universe. It is of that active, restless nature, that it must of necessity exert itself: and like the fire, to which it is so often compared, it is not a free agent to choose whether it will heat or no, but it streams forth...
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mathematics:
so what's new with you, stranger?
so what's new with you, stranger?
soeffinhappy:
You vanish and reappear a lot. I'm glad you're here now though.
Enough about me, what is going on in your life?
Why is it so hard for me to follow instructions? 
soeffinhappy:
Cause you're a free spirit?