My truck is gone...

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RIP my beautiful truck. Well... I don't know if it is totaled or not. However the front bumper and well... almost everything on the front is gone. I also have a crunched fender, and no tire on the passenger side. I was also issued a ticket for failure to yield to incoming traffic. My nerves are shot. Glad I still have some Xanax left...
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wasdpwnt:

Oh no!!  Not the truck! :(  so sorry to hear that... but first that you are okay.  and then... dang, the truck... 

57fairlane:

Well, only 551$ to fix her. all will be well soon. :)

The disorder...

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So, today I really understood that I am bi-polar. I have been diagnosed with it for a few months now, getting help with therapy and meds. A patient came in today talking about her having PTSD from a neighbor vandalizing their home. She talked about how he was bi-polar and how he was off his meds and destroyed their home by smashing everything in it...
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Break through??

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One med... blow out... still on the same med... rash... stopped taking said med... feeling nuts and then seeing my dr. about it. Now, there is a different med. Not so sure what is going to happen. There has been a break though in therapy, I had another blow out with Bob on Friday night over a miscommunication and feeling like he put his ex...
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What a day...

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What is in a day... it could be the most special day or the worst day or just an ordinary day. Mine is a little in between. I finally got a one up on Bob's ex wife. Someone though I was her child. LOL!!! Ha ha ha... I know he is older than me but that was just funny. After the game I walked...
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bagobolts:

Good to hear, you need to be happy!

lord_renob:

Good to hear that all in all life is going well.  And major kudos to the increased sex life!  

Sunday Jun 16, 2013

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Found out that step mother's day is the Sunday after mother's day... it will be celebrated next year.

Monday Feb 18, 2013

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I'm engaged!

No date yet, just enjoying this part of the romance. smile
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gogobongo:

Woohoo! Great news!

lord_renob:

Congrats!

Friday Feb 01, 2013

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Yeah! Finished my taxes and getting some good money back, that means i'm paying off most of my credit cards, all of those little shit's that are out there that I can't seem to get rid of. I'm putting the rest in savings and not touching it! Well, i'm treating myself to a hair cut.... then put the rest in...
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coyopakya:

hahaha similar here with the taxes

whoop whoop smile

Thursday Dec 13, 2012

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So, about the lovely email... I asked my dear friend Maggie to read it and give her opion on the whole thing... this is what she wote back.
Doing presents TOGETHER and spending Christmas time TOGETHER "like a family" encourages false hopes in the children that the divorce is not permanent, and THAT is not fair to them. Furthermore, by using them and their emotions...
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elsie_caruso:

That's exactly what I wrote you! haha. So yes, I agree!

lord_renob:

Agree with what she said.  His ex sounds like my brother's ex, oy vay.  Hopefully things go better come this Christmas. @};-

Monday Dec 10, 2012

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This is the email that my lovely boyfriend from his ex wife about Christmas... any idea how to deal with this kind of crazy? BTW Chrissy is me...


7:52 PM (16 hours ago)
to Bob, me
Thank you for the information. If you are willing to meet with me I would be happy to talk to you about gifts and Christmas and anything else...
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corsair:

I think its awesome that they can even discuss Christmas plans without wanting to kill each other, like so many divorced people. And the fact that she acknowledges you in all this . . . . is a very positive thing.

It could be a lot worse!

smile

elsie_caruso:

Sounds like she's a control freak. And she is planning not only his but your Christmas by the minute! And that she uses her children as an excuse to have everything her way. She wants to have all the perks of being married without being married. Screw chipping in for gifts and Christmas's together unless its you and him invited and you and him as part of the gift giving. It's as if she is recreating their family and pretending you two never happened. I totally understand the kids come first! That's a given but it shouldn't be under her control. Their is no reason to pretend you aren't part of it all because you are now. I don't think she should have any idea about what your lives entail except for drop off and pick up times! It seems like she is much too involved in planning what you two are doing instead of worrying about making her time with her kids meaningful. Children are smart and resilient and although she might intend to make the transition easier- pretending that things are the way they were with a Christmas just for them is just going to give the kids hope that their family will be working things out and only hurt them more. Just one woman's opinion.