I had a lovely chat with my boss today. I told him what happened with the BF and that I think it's time to move back to Phoenix. He said if that's my choice he won't do the modification to my mortgage. He said he'll still modify it if I agree to stay one more year. He thinks I'm being a wuss and trying to...
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jaxy:
Move to Vegas?
friscillating:
Go home, love. Go home. Fuck the materialistic shit - secure a job, and go home. Rent. Survive for a while. Be where you're safe. Get out of MI - it sounds toxic to you, eating your world bit by bit.
He did it again. When he was supposed to leave to come here I got a text saying everything fell apart and he was going in to work instead. It's not coincidence anymore that this only happens on the weekends we're supposed to see each other. I told him I didn't believe him and I wanted his boss to call me. She never did. I...
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shaunr:
Sorry to hear that babe , Hope everything works out.
inkblot98:
Z's right. I will miss you so very very much, but it will warm my heart to know you'll be home in AZ where you'll finally be warm and close to your family.
Before I get too mushy too far a head of time...
I love you sweetheart...:
Before I get too mushy too far a head of time...
I love you sweetheart...:
I fanfucking hate my software company at work! OMG how I hate them! We got this software in August 2009, so coming up on two and a half years now. I was a small part of the conversion team and it was a huge pain in the ass because they didn't even have the mortgage part written until like 3 days before we went live....
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blackheartdown:
Good Documentation, Customer Support, and Technical Support are expensive (and the designer who made the product don't like to actually do those tasks). That's probably why the software was so "reasonably" priced and why so many banks use it, because the s/w house cut costs by not providing it.
I feel your pain. I've been, and am on both ends.
I feel your pain. I've been, and am on both ends.
zarphin:
Now thats an explanation of your rather vague texts yesterday. Thank you, now I know why you were threatening Software peoples lives.
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blackheartdown:
This is very good news!
"written by a crazy person about love." I don't think there is a more appropriate person to discuss the topic.
"written by a crazy person about love." I don't think there is a more appropriate person to discuss the topic.
taoandcoffee:
I'm just glad everything made you smile on different levels. As they took longer to get there, I had more time to fret about how lame they were. I didn't even think about the bondage hear thing! Hehe.
J'ai besoin de t'envoyer des autres choses qui contient du Francais
J'ai besoin de t'envoyer des autres choses qui contient du Francais
This is officially the worst Valentine's Day ever. I've been lonely and picking fights with TaoAndCoffee all week. I hate needing him more than he needs me. I painted him a Valentine's Day card but he hasn't gotten it yet. I told him not to open it and just throw it away when it gets there. I'm out of practice with painting so it looks...
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cassiel:
I hope yr heart finds peace. ♥
blackheartdown:
Hmm, sounds like you do have some bad postal mojo. Both MI and ON are big areas, and could put a big expanse between the two of you. Hopefully you get to make the most of it when you are together.
Apparently my loan modification for my mortgage has been approved. Yippy! I'll believe it when my payment is actually changed since my boss likes to irk me by doing things in his own time. This will save me $70 a month. Which I will then lose once my divorce is final at the end of this month and I have to start paying the higher...
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sourskittles:
I understand where your coming from. But my divorce got denied. Neither him nor myself have taken the stupid Divorced Parenting Education Classes. I keep forgetting, and I don't have much in the way of a babysitter, and the damn class costs $65! I could feed my kids for a week on $65! My ex has no want or drive to take the class... So damn him, I might never be truely single again.
Hugs! xoxo
Hugs! xoxo
robby91:
How did you go about getting your loan modification kicked off? Who is your lender? I would love to be able to do that.
Sigh. I work where I have my mortgage in the MORTGAGE SERVICING DEPARTMENT. My boss oversees what I do and the collections department. This means he handles requests for loan modifications due to financial hardship. When I told him about my divorce last spring he said to let him know if I needed help since I'm keeping the house. In October I told him I...
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friscillating:
I have every appendage crossed for you. Every single one. Including My lips. And My ... teeth aren't appendages, and it's a bit awkward, but those too. :/
azkadellia:
I elected to keep our house, because of the fur kids and it's less stress for me. But it's not, either, really, since this is the place we bought together to spend our lives. But it's not something that would sell in this economy, and so why waste the effort? It can be repainted, decorations removed and replaced, made different and new.
J has been a blessing. I cannot believe I've found someone so understanding and supportive of the situation. I have my fears still, very much so, but that will probably always be the case.
W and I are remaining friends, and that has it's own challenges. But I swear my mother is having a harder time with this than I am. She just asked if I could bring my wedding album over when I come for dinner, so she can get pictures with "just you in them." It's like she's erasing him from everything, and I'm having a hard time dealing with that.
J has been a blessing. I cannot believe I've found someone so understanding and supportive of the situation. I have my fears still, very much so, but that will probably always be the case.
W and I are remaining friends, and that has it's own challenges. But I swear my mother is having a harder time with this than I am. She just asked if I could bring my wedding album over when I come for dinner, so she can get pictures with "just you in them." It's like she's erasing him from everything, and I'm having a hard time dealing with that.
Twisted Metal
SG Set
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phacet:
As you are well aware ... picture #30 is my personal fav
sourskittles:
I'm glad I made you laugh. I love making people laugh.
And you are very sexy! Thanks for the Boo on bad internet... I'm hoping to get it switched over here pretty quickly. That will so make my day!
Can't wait to see more pics of you come up!
And you are very sexy! Thanks for the Boo on bad internet... I'm hoping to get it switched over here pretty quickly. That will so make my day!
Can't wait to see more pics of you come up!
I <3 this song.
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beejai:
Nice
friscillating:
Haiiiiii!
How are you?
How are you?
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cassiel:
That is a butt. In black & white.
inkblot98:
Lovely, lovely bum deary!!!!
First of all I want to apologize to everyone who has a message in my inbox that I haven't responded to yet. Work was stupid crazy and I worked a bit of OT so I could take my vacation.
A week ago Saturday was my work Christmas party and Zarphin was my date. He was an awesome date. He entertained me and played nice with...
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hooeylewis:
Awesome blog I hope that 2012 is a amazing year for you. However responding to messages late makes the baby Jesus cry lol j/k.
inkblot98:
Awwwww..... Z is in a suit!!! How cutie he be! I hope you have safe travels on your way across the country! Love you girly! E-mail me