It's me who should be thanking you, @coraslaine... for having the 'x factor', or the 'trait of unknown variable' representing some particular quality or characteristic that makes you desirable- standing out amongst crowds. Imho, it's either something naturally inherent that you have or you don't-and, well, you have it in abundance!Β Β Perhaps it's the non-pretentious & extremely down-to-earth vibe you exude, complimented with your beauty, of course!