I wasn't born a dating expert. I do (or have done) many other interesting jobs: stand-up comic, crisis worker (*), substitute teacher, martial arts...

Too embarrassed to talk to your friends about your foot fetish? Not sure when to tell your partner about those, um, nasty genital warts? Need some Gotha...

I was very pleasantly surprised to see R. Elisabeth Cornwell’s articles The Evolution of Religion and Why Women Are Bound to Religion: An Evolutionary...

Too embarrassed to talk to your friends about your furry fetish? Not sure when to tell your partner about those, um, nasty genital warts? Are your friends...

Too embarrassed to talk to your friends about your furry fetish? Not sure when to tell your partner about those, um, nasty genital warts? Are your friends...

On November 28th, His Holiness the Dalai Lama* made news by saying celibacy is good. Must’ve been a slow news day. What he actually said -- in English...

Guest columnist Margaret Cho writes.... A lover once looked very dismayed at my Hitachi Magic Wand vibrator -- the Cadillac of sex toys and my true BFF...

This fourth and final instalment of Erotic Ink takes you into the back room of the tattoo studio, clothes off, with the artist’s hands on your body, breath...

I have a confession to make; Since gathering all this hot info from my Tattoos and Sex Survey and writing Part I and II of Erotic Ink, I can’t stop thinking...

It’s Wednesday, commonly referred to as “hump day,” and thus, perfectly suited to talk about sex in this second installment of Erotic Ink, an intimate...

From ancient tribal cultures to San Francisco's leather boy scene, tattoos have been inextricably linked with sex for many. Yet, while the art form...

Here's a little piece of advice, mostly for the ladies, but boys – take it as you will. When filing for divorce, and you aren't yourself a lawyer,...

Here’s an e-mail I got recently: Elizabeth, I’ve received a lot of e-mails along these lines. But as for my writing giving people “new to Zen the idea...

There is something so obvious about the choices we must make when we are in the world of single. We all know when something is "right" or "wrong"...

Internet regulations. Media tycoons. Virgins. Tania Derveaux. What do these things have in common? Well, if you are a virgin and you can prove that you...

Like most people of our generation, I've been bouncing from one relationship to the next breakup the majority of my dating life. These are splattered...

THE SUNDAY HANGOVER 010 WARREN ELLIS The "Hot Carl," apparently, is where a mentally ill man loosely stretches cellophane across the open mouth...

(image) If you thought the story of Jim Bob Dugger, his semen trough, uh, wife and their 17 Jesus spawn was extreme, this will blow your fucking mind. ...

It has recently been brought to my attention that I am now apparently known in Buddhist circles as the “Porno Buddhist.” This, it seems, is a source of...

(image) Humans have sex. Lots of it. We give it many names; intercourse, coitus, "making love," fucking, boinking, and so on. According to the...

(image) How many times have you been waiting patiently in line to use a public restroom, only to discover that the non-stop orgy of anonymous gay sex that’d...

(image) If you’re a member of SuicideGirls.com, chances are you’re going to be pro-body modification in general. One need only look at the number of comments...

(image) As if you didn’t know how weird and perverse people can be, along comes a tiny group of fringe deviants who have gone and complicated human sexuality...

Or some of them don’t, anyway. And despite the fact that a great deal of people decide to remain abstinent for a great many reasons, there are always those...

(image) Meet Loretta Ross, one of the founding members of the Sister Song Women of Color Reproductive Health Collective, which is holding its second National...

(image) While I was in Milan last week I was taken to a party to learn how the Italian underground wastes away their Saturday nights. Presented by Pornflakes...

(image) Hypothetically, you're standing on the edge of a cliff with your girlfriend, who has chosen this place to show you her favorite outfit of all...

(image) Seattle is to coffee like New York to cosmos, Tijuana to tequila, or like the entire state of Texas is to Steel Reserve—an ethno-diuretic association...

(image) Screw the love shacks, get busy outdoors in Italy's newly announced amusement parks. Founder and entrepreneur Giuseppe Foggetti has announced...

So apparently these are easier than the ones we currently play with in the dark. Sort of takes the fun out of putting it on with your mouth, though. (video)...

(image) Can the vastly popular bulletin board site Craigslist.com alleviate your sexual frustrations by treating intercourse like buying a Transformers...