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Florida School Cuts Lesbian's Picture in Tux

SUNDAY FEBRUARY 27 2005 7:09 AM

Submitted by Pandora. Edited By legionnaire.

Kelli Davis, a lesbian teen wearing a tuxedo in her senior yearbook picture is the subject of another human rights controversy in north eastern Florida. More than 200 people from the community turned out to debate the issue on behalf of Kelli.

"This is not to be treated as a gay rights issue," said her mother, Cindi Davis. "Rather it's a human rights issue."


Principal Sam Ward of Fleming Island High School was backed by school officials for ordering the picture to be cut out of the yearbook. One student was even fired from the yearbook staff because she refused to remove the picture of Kelli.

Others applauded Ward's decision, including Karen Gordon, who said, "When uniformity is compromised, then authority no longer holds."

There is no set dress code for senior pictures but the school supervisors do have the right to set limitations and standards. After going to private schools most of my life and adhering to a dress code, I can say that dress codes are condusive to the desire for chaos. So what do you think about all of this? Is it all just a rant over nothing?

 

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TeresaAnnaMae

TeresaAnnaMae

Halifax, NS
May 2003

FEB 27, 2005 07:13 AM

That's TERRIBLE and loaded with disresepect.
The girl in the tux along with the lady fired from yearbook both deserve apologies. Also, action needs to be taken to fix the homophobia present, it's unacceptable under any circumstances.

[Edited on Feb 27, 2005 11:15AM]

myfrustration

myfrustration

Chicago, IL
September 2004

FEB 27, 2005 07:14 AM

No, it's a rant for something. No administrator has the right to remove the picture of a lesbian student because she is wearing a suit. They can say it was because of her attire all they want, but everyone knows its not because of what she wore, it's because of what made her want to wear it.

neweyedeas

neweyedeas

Saint Louis, MO
September 2004

FEB 27, 2005 07:22 AM

"When uniformity is compromised, the authority no longer holds."

That's a scary, scary statement right there. Aside from the homophobia implicit in the principal's actions - that statement could easily lead to just as destructive actions against any number of minorities.

For example, if the school has a predominantly white population, what's to stop them from cutting out African American students' pictures ... to preserve uniformity? Or Hispanic students' pictures? Or all the female students' entirely? Where does it stop?

Besides, whose authority is threatened by women wearing tuxedos? Personally, I think that's kind of sexy.

kitschy

kitschy

Raleigh, NC
July 2004

FEB 27, 2005 07:24 AM

This is sooo wrong and ridiculous! The whole bullshit about maintaining order is hypocritical. It's not as though she wore her bathingsuit in the picture, and I'm positive they wouldn't stop a male student from wearing a tux. Their homophobia and hypocrisy is transparent.

Besides, aren't there bigger issues the administration needs to focus on like education, and broadening children's minds instead of stifling their creativiity and indivuality????? mad

Snottlebocket

Snottlebocket

Netherlands
March 2004

FEB 27, 2005 07:36 AM

rediculous, it's a frigging tux, it's not like she was wearing some kind of offensive anti anything tshirt or something.
really low blow.

SexyBeast

SexyBeast

Metairie, LA
July 2004

FEB 27, 2005 07:36 AM

kitschy said:
Besides, aren't there bigger issues the administration needs to focus on like education, and broadening children's minds instead of stifling their creativiity and indivuality????? mad



Individuality taught in school? Seemed the opposite was pushed in the school that I was in. My last year of school we had to start wearing uniforms and start wearing IDs around our necks. Kids could dye their hair certain colors and they were limited to the makeup and nail polish they could wear.

The whole thing pisses me off. Schools suck these days, that's all.

Also: She couldn't wear a tux but I bet the wouldn't have cared if she was wearing a female pants suit, or whatever they are called.

[Edited on Feb 27, 2005 by SexyBeast]

crispy

crispy

NEWSWIRE

Philadelphia, PA

FEB 27, 2005 07:54 AM

Just playing devil's advocate, but do you think that if a gay male student had worn a gown they would leave the picture in the yearbook? Highly doubtful.

RACER_X

RACER_X

Philadelphia, PA
February 2003

FEB 27, 2005 08:02 AM

Yet the picture of Greta Garbo in a tux, is considered "classic"... robot

Rephrased

Rephrased

Portland, ME
June 2003

FEB 27, 2005 08:08 AM

"When uniformity is compromised, the authority no longer holds.".


At first, I must have read this the way I wanted to hear it. I thought it said, "When uniformity is imposed, the authority no longer holds." That seems like a more accurate statement to me.

[Edited on Feb 27, 2005 8:09AM]

SexyBeast

SexyBeast

Metairie, LA
July 2004

FEB 27, 2005 08:17 AM

crispy said:
Just playing devil's advocate, but do you think that if a gay male student had worn a gown they would leave the picture in the yearbook? Highly doubtful.



No, but if he was pretty they should leave the picuter.

Cash

Cash

I'm lost
OLD SKOOL

FEB 27, 2005 08:17 AM

crispy said:
Just playing devil's advocate, but do you think that if a gay male student had worn a gown they would leave the picture in the yearbook? Highly doubtful.



If you want an honest, un-PC answer....I'd say that a girl wearing a tux is much less of a distraction than a guy wearing a dress.

semyaza

semyaza

Wildomar, CA
December 2004

FEB 27, 2005 08:17 AM

crispy said:
Just playing devil's advocate, but do you think that if a gay male student had worn a gown they would leave the picture in the yearbook? Highly doubtful.



Gay males do not normally wear dresses. lesbians do not always wear "male" clothing either.. In any event, girls are more likely to wear tuxedos at prom than seeing a guy wear a gown. Even "straight" girls who have tomboyish traits have been known to wear tuxedos. It was accepted when I was in high school....of course, I'm originally from Washington State. Minds are more open there than in more conservative states like Florida, where rigid conformity is some kind of perverted "value".

*note: by the way, when I reply, I get the little smilies and insert links overlayed on the text entry box....this happens each time I reply. Anyone know why?

ChezGeek

ChezGeek

Puyallup, WA
January 2004

FEB 27, 2005 08:20 AM

if they have final say over what gets allowed in, then whats the surprise? yeah it sucks, but really, is it that big a deal? the fact that she is lesbian i think is incidental. im all for gay/lesbian rights, and am, in fact, a member of the local gay/lesbian alliance even though i am neither. this is just an unfortunate incident.

hermetica

hermetica

Cook Islands
January 2004

FEB 27, 2005 08:22 AM

crispy said:
Just playing devil's advocate, but do you think that if a gay male student had worn a gown they would leave the picture in the yearbook? Highly doubtful.



The whole point of a yearbook is its a memoir for the students, not some idealistic ego boost for the administrators. They might not have let a gay student wear a dress, but they SHOULD. Otherwise, dont bother with the whole yearbook, because controlling every single thing that goes it makes it a sham and a parody of what its supposed to be. Ok I understand that there should be some boundaries of good taste, but a woman in a tux or man in a dress is HARDLY explicit, obscene or rudely vulgar.

bittergirl

bittergirl

Cleveland, OH
November 2002

FEB 27, 2005 08:22 AM

That is really appalling. It's true -- they wouldn't stop a male student from wearing a tux in his photo, would they? And firing the student who refused to remove the photo? That's absolutely ridiculous, but I'm proud of her, whoever she is. The more people stand up to these kind of bozos, the better.

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