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Thanks For Visiting America! By The Way, You’re No Longer A Goddess



Sajani Shakya is pretty much your average 10-year-old Nepalese girl.

Well, except that up until recently, she was venerated by both Hindus and Buddhists in Nepal as a Kumari Devi, or ”living goddess”.

Sajani was one of the latest in a very long line of Nepalese girls considered to be an incarnation of the Hindu goddess Durga. Normally Durga is all fierce, riding a lion and kicking demon ass with her 10 arms, but camping out in a little Nepalese girl keeps Durga’s energy in check and keeps it on the “creation” side of things. The Kumari Devi is also the patron of Nepal’s monarchy, bestowing blessings upon the king.

Being chosen as a Kumari Devi is quite an elaborate procedure. The right girl has to match 32 “attributes of perfection,” ranging from eye color to the shape of her teeth. Apparently ancient Hindu goddesses use a procedure similar to eHarmony. Then the potential Kumari Devis are put in a dark room where dancers in demon masks attempt to scare them, since a true incarnation of a goddess who, among other things, kicks demon ass shouldn’t be scared by jazz hands.

However, it’s a lot easier to stop being a Kumari Devi. Traditionally, it’s the onset of puberty that signifies the goddess Durga leaving for a new incarnation in some other Nepalese girl, but even sustaining a scratch that’s deep enough to bleed can cut short a Kumari Devi’s reign.

Sajani Shakya, however, lost her goddess status for other, less blood-based, reasons.

Was it because she blessed Nepal’s king during a decade-long civil war? Maybe it’s because Nepal’s entire monarchy might soon be abolished?

Nope, it’s because she set foot in the United States on a goodwill tour related to an upcoming documentary about both Kumari Devis and Nepal’s civil war. While there are a bunch of Kumari Devis living in various cities and towns in Nepal, Sajani was considered one of the major ones, and thus wasn’t really supposed to leave Nepal.

Sajani’s US tour was enough to anger temple elders in her town of Bhaktapur, who declared that setting foot on American soil had tainted her purity. It’s like they’ve heard of Britney Spears or something.

So now the newly de-goddessed Sajani returns to her life as a normal 10-year-old Nepalese girl (albeit with a government pension), and I’m hoping America, having caused Sajani to lose her divinity, can learn something from this.

Like, why doesn’t Jesus grow eight more arms and ride around on a lion, kicking demon ass?

 

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Ms_Magdalena

Ms_Magdalena

Minneapolis, MN
February 2007

JUL 05, 2007 07:25 AM

G93 said:

mingol said:

Jenni said:
Also, it's a bit out of order to psychologically abuse a child to the point where they believe they're a divinity in human form.



She plays the role until she's about 12, knowing full well that it's temporary - and then goes on to have a normal life. I hardly think that constitutes "psychological abuse".



It is considered as abuse by some. It's a very controversial topic. The practice violates not only the rights of the child but the rights of women in general.



This:

RyleeStrange said:
no you're talking american constitutional rights. this is nepal--where our constitution does not factor in at ALL



And:

By the same reguard - you have to take into consideration that this is a religious practice; akin to 12 year olds becoming alter boys and acolytes, or reciting the blessings during a bar/bat mitzvah, etc.

Hell, do you consider it child abuse for parents to neglect cutting their child's hair if they're a member of the Sikh religion? After all, their schoolmates poking fun might result in drastic psychological problems. /sarcasm

It's all dependent on the culture, and what the child is brought up to believe. To say anything otherwise (when the practice is obviously not causing physical harm) is pure ignorance.

Being brought up to believe that you are an incarntion of a goddess is (in my opinion)* much akin to being crowned royalty at a school function, captain of a team, etc. It's a position of privaledge and partial authority, and it's temporary. Yes, it may momentarily elevate your status and your self image, but it's temporary. Something to get over.

*again, I said opinion.

Glassmachine

Glassmachine

United Kingdom
November 2004

JUL 05, 2007 07:43 AM

Zarth said:

Glassmachine said:

G93 said:
The practice violates not only the rights of the child but the rights of women in general.


Yeah and while you're at it, explain what you know of the practice itself that you didn't read from this article and Wikipedia. Then go and look up 'reactionary' in the dictionary.


"Reactionary" refers to ultraconservative politics, and that's what it will say in the dictionary. Its internet mutation has always annoyed the fuck out of me. Just for the record.



I stand corrected. Imagine I used the appropriate word.\


I don't know about G93's point (I haven't read everything here, yet, as I only came in here to ogle Ms_Magdalena), but I have heard that there's a movement in Nepal to discontinue the practice because the girls' education is interrupted during the period of their divinity.

It actually is controversial. In Nepal itself, where a lawsuit has been filed on behalf of the girls' civil rights.



Now that's a fair point on that particular issue. I'm objecting to the offensive and narrow-minded ridicule of two ancient religions based upon what they've read in this article. I'm also willing to bet that the objection to the practice was not based on their knowledge that movement you've mentioned.

Also, while it's also not ideal to take these kids out of school, It's also not tantamount to a backwards nation with a silly religion and barbarous culture punishing women. Kids are taken out of school to play football or a vareity of other reasons in this country. So lets drop the superiority kick before we get carried away.

Harleen

Harleen

United Kingdom
June 2005

JUL 05, 2007 07:48 AM

Part of the reason why this film was created, is because there is such controversy over the treatment of these children, the documentary team wanted to capture the beauty of the tradition before it is lost completely.

I don't know much about the issue, but from what I've read, part of the 'abuse' argument is that from the age of four these children are
- allowed only a small amount of pre-chosen playmates
- not allowed outside except for special occasions when they are 'paraded'
- have a loss of freedom, in what they can wear, eat, where they can and can't go and who they see.

Also, there is a belief that any man who marries these girls will die at a young age, so they very often have a difficult adulthood as no man wants to marry them. This leads to various stigmas and financial difficulties, as well as the emotional issues.

liljohn

liljohn

USA
November 2006

JUL 05, 2007 07:51 AM

Interesting, I wonder how it affects the whole dharma, kharma as far as the reincarnation goes? Maybe she'll come back as the goddess of vengeance.


Just think of the stories she can tell her grandchildren. " When I was your age, I was to busy to clean my room. I was busy fighting evil demons and spirits."

Glassmachine

Glassmachine

United Kingdom
November 2004

JUL 05, 2007 07:51 AM

Are those kiddy beauty pageants still going on in the US?

Zarth

zarth

Seattle, WA
December 2004

JUL 05, 2007 07:52 AM

Glassmachine said:

Zarth said:

Glassmachine said:

G93 said:
The practice violates not only the rights of the child but the rights of women in general.


Yeah and while you're at it, explain what you know of the practice itself that you didn't read from this article and Wikipedia. Then go and look up 'reactionary' in the dictionary.


"Reactionary" refers to ultraconservative politics, and that's what it will say in the dictionary. Its internet mutation has always annoyed the fuck out of me. Just for the record.


I stand corrected. Imagine I used the appropriate word.


Although it drives me nuts, as a linguist, I have to recognize the legitimacy of semantic drift as a motivator for linguistic change. It just doesn't mean I have to like it.

Which makes me kind of reactionary in that.

Glassmachine said:


I don't know about G93's point (I haven't read everything here, yet, as I only came in here to ogle Ms_Magdalena), but I have heard that there's a movement in Nepal to discontinue the practice because the girls' education is interrupted during the period of their divinity.

It actually is controversial. In Nepal itself, where a lawsuit has been filed on behalf of the girls' civil rights.


Now that's a fair point on that particular issue. I'm objecting to the offensive and narrow-minded ridicule of two ancient religions based upon what they've read in this article. I'm also willing to bet that the objection to the practice was not based on their knowledge that movement you've mentioned.


Those are fair objections, and you're probably right about the way G93 was reacting.

Glassmachine said:
Also, while it's also not ideal to take these kids out of school, It's also not tantamount to a backwards nation with a silly religion and barbarous culture punishing women. Kids are taken out of school to play football or a vareity of other reasons in this country. So lets drop the superiority kick before we get carried away.


Well, as a highly committed atheist, I'd regard that as debatable, but I certainly agree that there's no point in degrading the discourse with unnecessary insults and contempt.

Ms_Magdalena

Ms_Magdalena

Minneapolis, MN
February 2007

JUL 05, 2007 07:52 AM

Harleen said:
Part of the reason why this film was created, is because there is such controversy over the treatment of these children, the documentary team wanted to capture the beauty of the tradition before it is lost completely.



This is exactly my point.

I don't know much about the issue, but from what I've read, part of the 'abuse' argument is that from the age of four these children are
- allowed only a small amount of pre-chosen playmates
- not allowed outside except for special occasions when they are 'paraded'
- have a loss of freedom, in what they can wear, eat, where they can and can't go and who they see.

Also, there is a belief that any man who marries these girls will die at a young age, so they very often have a difficult adulthood as no man wants to marry them. This leads to various stigmas and financial difficulties, as well as the emotional issues.




So, what. . . they're basically treated in the exact same fashion as most royalty in the world? Minus that whole "husbands die early" thing, of course. Hmmmm. . . .

mingol

mingol

Singapore
July 2005

JUL 05, 2007 07:56 AM

Zarth said:
I don't know about G93's point (I haven't read everything here, yet, as I only came in here to ogle Ms_Magdalena), but I have heard that there's a movement in Nepal to discontinue the practice because the girls' education is interrupted during the period of their divinity.

It actually is controversial. In Nepal itself, where a lawsuit has been filed on behalf of the girls' civil rights.



Traditionally, the Kumari Devi did not receive an education - she was a goddess, so why would she need one? - but during the 1990s that practice changed, and a few hours are now set aside each day so that the Kumari Devi can receive tutoring. Even the people who argue for making education available to the girls (the lawyer quoted in your link, for example) are usually asking for reform - not abolition - of the tradition.

As for attacks upon the tradition itself, keep in mind that the role of Nepal's monarchy has been pretty hotly contested in the political arena during recent years. The King seeks the blessings of the Kumari Devi annually, and the monarchy derives some of its spiritual legitimacy from the practice, so attacks directed at it should probably be evaluated in a broader context than just "won't somebody think of the children?"

Zarth

zarth

Seattle, WA
December 2004

JUL 05, 2007 08:00 AM

Ms_Magdalena said:
So, what. . . they're basically treated in the exact same fashion as most royalty in the world? Minus that whole "husbands die early" thing, of course. Hmmmm. . . .


There are problems with it - it's not a completely harmless tradition (the most legitimate objection I've seen to it is the interruption of education, but the marital thing is also fairly serious in a traditional society). From the article I cited:

Lawyer Maharjan's main concern, she says, is that the tradition denies a normal childhood to young girls. "The education given to them is a sham. They are separated from parents. The meager salary they get goes to the caretakers," she says. In her petition, Ms. Maharjan demands that the tradition continue but only after ensuring that the "best interest" of the girls is protected.

Zarth

zarth

Seattle, WA
December 2004

JUL 05, 2007 08:02 AM

mingol said:

Zarth said:
I don't know about G93's point (I haven't read everything here, yet, as I only came in here to ogle Ms_Magdalena), but I have heard that there's a movement in Nepal to discontinue the practice because the girls' education is interrupted during the period of their divinity.

It actually is controversial. In Nepal itself, where a lawsuit has been filed on behalf of the girls' civil rights.


Traditionally, the Kumari Devi did not receive an education - she was a goddess, so why would she need one? - but during the 1990s that practice changed, and a few hours are now set aside each day so that the Kumari Devi can receive tutoring. Even the people who argue for making education available to the girls (the lawyer quoted in your link, for example) are usually asking for reform - not abolition - of the tradition.


Yeah, I noticed that. I'm not really advocating for its abolition either. I'm fairly indifferent to it, actually.

I just wanted to point out that there really is a controversy and it's not just being made up by smug Western loudmouths.

mingol said:
As for attacks upon the tradition itself, keep in mind that the role of Nepal's monarchy has been pretty hotly contested in the political arena during recent years. The King seeks the blessings of the Kumari Devi annually, and the monarchy derives some of its spiritual legitimacy from the practice, so attacks directed at it should probably be evaluated in a broader context than just "won't somebody think of the children?"


Well, the King pretty much sucks, you have to admit. I mean, you can probably guess where my sympathies lie in the civil war. Inasmuch as they lie with anybody, at least.

mingol

mingol

Singapore
July 2005

JUL 05, 2007 08:04 AM

Harleen said:
Also, there is a belief that any man who marries these girls will die at a young age, so they very often have a difficult adulthood as no man wants to marry them. This leads to various stigmas and financial difficulties, as well as the emotional issues.



True, but most of the past Kumaris seem to have found husbands anyway.

Also, they receive a pension from the government - according to Wikipedia, 6,000 rupees per month, which is a pretty reasonable sum.

Ms_Magdalena

Ms_Magdalena

Minneapolis, MN
February 2007

JUL 05, 2007 08:05 AM

Zarth said:

Ms_Magdalena said:
So, what. . . they're basically treated in the exact same fashion as most royalty in the world? Minus that whole "husbands die early" thing, of course. Hmmmm. . . .


There are problems with it - it's not a completely harmless tradition (the most legitimate objection I've seen to it is the interruption of education, but the marital thing is also fairly serious in a traditional society). From the article I cited:

Lawyer Maharjan's main concern, she says, is that the tradition denies a normal childhood to young girls. "The education given to them is a sham. They are separated from parents. The meager salary they get goes to the caretakers," she says. In her petition, Ms. Maharjan demands that the tradition continue but only after ensuring that the "best interest" of the girls is protected.




Honestly though, this is a matter of culture. The post I have on page 2 speaks more to that (well, more or less). You're being raised as a goddess incarnate. A goddess. How many of these girls would you suppose are torn up over the matter?




At the same time, however. . . I can definitely see how this has become an issue in the country at hand, considering how Nepal has been struggling to modernize itself more over the past decade.

Zarth

zarth

Seattle, WA
December 2004

JUL 05, 2007 08:07 AM

Ms_Magdalena said:

Zarth said:

Ms_Magdalena said:
So, what. . . they're basically treated in the exact same fashion as most royalty in the world? Minus that whole "husbands die early" thing, of course. Hmmmm. . . .


There are problems with it - it's not a completely harmless tradition (the most legitimate objection I've seen to it is the interruption of education, but the marital thing is also fairly serious in a traditional society). From the article I cited:

Lawyer Maharjan's main concern, she says, is that the tradition denies a normal childhood to young girls. "The education given to them is a sham. They are separated from parents. The meager salary they get goes to the caretakers," she says. In her petition, Ms. Maharjan demands that the tradition continue but only after ensuring that the "best interest" of the girls is protected.


Honestly though, this is a matter of culture. The post I have on page 2 speaks more to that (well, more or less). You're being raised as a goddess incarnate. A goddess. How many of these girls would you suppose are torn up over the matter?


If you read the article I posted, you'd see it's very few. As I say, I was pointing out that there's a legitimate controversy about the practice within their culture. I'm not taking a side one way or the other.

Don't get all reactionary, now.

Harleen

Harleen

United Kingdom
June 2005

JUL 05, 2007 08:08 AM

Ms_Magdalena said:
So, what. . . they're basically treated in the exact same fashion as most royalty in the world? Minus that whole "husbands die early" thing, of course. Hmmmm. . . .


I agree.
I was just looking for what exactly the argument is, with regards to 'abuse'. I can't actually find anything specific, just vague references saying 'some groups argue this is against Nepalese policies on childrens rights'.
The government did agree last year that there were some problems with how these girls are treated once they no longer have the title, hence the 'pension'.

Ms_Magdalena

Ms_Magdalena

Minneapolis, MN
February 2007

JUL 05, 2007 08:09 AM

Zarth said:

Ms_Magdalena said:

Zarth said:

Ms_Magdalena said:
So, what. . . they're basically treated in the exact same fashion as most royalty in the world? Minus that whole "husbands die early" thing, of course. Hmmmm. . . .


There are problems with it - it's not a completely harmless tradition (the most legitimate objection I've seen to it is the interruption of education, but the marital thing is also fairly serious in a traditional society). From the article I cited:

Lawyer Maharjan's main concern, she says, is that the tradition denies a normal childhood to young girls. "The education given to them is a sham. They are separated from parents. The meager salary they get goes to the caretakers," she says. In her petition, Ms. Maharjan demands that the tradition continue but only after ensuring that the "best interest" of the girls is protected.


Honestly though, this is a matter of culture. The post I have on page 2 speaks more to that (well, more or less). You're being raised as a goddess incarnate. A goddess. How many of these girls would you suppose are torn up over the matter?




At the same time, however. . . I can definitely see how this has become an issue in the country at hand, considering how Nepal has been struggling to modernize itself more over the past decade.


If you read the article I posted, you'd see it's very few. As I say, I was pointing out that there's a legitimate controversy about the practice within their culture. I'm not taking a side one way or the other.

Don't get all reactionary, now.




Hence my edit, darling.

I'll show you reactionary. . . .

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