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Shalome said it best.

If you are in any type of a serious relationship, there have probably been boundaries set. You should know the person that you are with well enough to know what they will and will not accept from you. I would consider online sex cheating, if I found out my husband was doing it I'd be pissed. Honestly, though, I'd be even angrier if there was any type of emotional bonding going on. I could forgive him telling another girl how much he wanted her to go down on him, but not telling her how much he wishes he could be with her in a relationship.

If you are hiding it, it is something you don't want them to see. If you don't want them to see it, it is breaking their trust. Easy as that. I'm lucky enough to have a husband that isn't jealous, so I get to come on here and post my boobies and joke around with everyone.

Perhaps Bush will take David Cross' advice and launch a War on Jealousy.

Well, Stroker Serpentine of Second Life, you're probably right. It's probably not morally apprehensible--because "morally apprehensible" makes no goddamn sense.

*sigh*

If your significant other is going to rip you a new one for it, then it's cheating... may sound overly simplistic , but hey, life doesn't need to be complicated...

I have no idea.

I kind of want to apprehend me some morals now, though. If I'd known I could just chase 'em down instead of, like, working to develop them or buying into some belief system or another, maybe I'd have gotten myself some awhile ago.

Um, maybe the morals will jump out and apprehend you for err..being an online sex cheater? Like on the show, CHEATERS. Yeah. Something like that.

You have just been morally apprehended!

Take that!

I think 'that' thread was his research for this 'thread', I'm confused too!

Well, uh, I thought the consensus was that what constituted cheating depended on what attitude one's partner would take on the matter.

And that different partners in different relationships would have different takes on the matter.

So it can be cheating, but it isn't by definition cheating.

I'm sorry for I and all the people I've shared any time with in life, it's always been a matter of fact that much like the lovely little Vegas campaign clogan, "what happens on the internet" stays there, this however changes when people do this sort of thing repeatedly (more than once a week, or once EVERY week, the sort of thing that oges on in a pattern or in more than random frequence). I for instance don't ingage in "online" anything cause frankly I think its a little silly, but I don't give two flying fucks if someone I'm"sticking it to" wants to go a :cybering" that's their issue and I stay good and well out of it, and that sems to work just fine (for me).

But no mention in this article as to whether a consensus was reached on if sex with vacuum cleaners is cheating.

Absolutely it's cheating.

Let me paint a picture. Say you felt very strongly for a boyfriend/girlfriend, etc. You are in a monogamous, committed relationship. You go out with some friends to cut loose after a hard week working. You turn around and see in the next booth, your love with someone else. They aren't touching, they aren't in any obvious sexual interaction, but your S.O. is telling this other person things you thought he/she would only ever say to you. Sharing things, feelings, thoughts, interests, that are clearly beyond the boundaries of friendship. Would that make you feel good? Would that be ok with you? For most the answer to this question would be "no, it wouldn't be ok.". Nor should it. There are lines and it doesn't take screwing around physically to go over those bounds. Fidelity is a state of mind and spirit as much as body. If you commit, you commit. If you don't like it, don't commit.

-Craig