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  • SUNDAY NOVEMBER 27 2011 9:03 PM

I Am An Atheist

by Damon Martin

In today's America, I could easily say I was a Catholic, a Baptist, a Mormon, or a Muslim and likely get less criticism and hatred spewed at me than simply saying I don't believe in any god or book that talks about a god. It's for that reason that today I 'come out of the closet' and proudly say that I'm an atheist. I won't apologize for that and hopefully more atheists will do the same.

At the University of Kansas recently, a group of students launched a campaign called 'We Are Atheists' modeled after the famous 'It Gets Better' campaign focused around gays and lesbians.

The 'We Are Atheists' ideal is simply a way for more non-believers to come out and not be afraid to speak about their lack of belief in a god, or their belief in science or evolution, or whatever it is that brought them to decree that they are an atheist.

Co-founder Amanda Brown put together a five-minute video that's being circulated around YouTube speaking about why she is an atheist and encouraging others to speak out as well.



It's a similar ideal to that of famed evolutionary biologist Richard Dawkins who started the 'Out Campaign' a few years ago. Dawkins created the movement with the exact same thought in mind:

"The Out Campaign allows individuals to let others know they are not alone. It can also be a nice way of opening a conversation and help to demolish the negative stereotypes of atheists. Let the world know that we are not about to go away and that we are not going to allow those that would condemn us to push us into the shadows"



Atheism is almost like a dirty word in American culture. A Pew Research Center survey conducted in May 2011 asked voters what potential traits would sway them negatively away from a political candidate. 7% said that a political candidate being a woman could sway them away, 33 % said a candidate being gay could push their vote the other way, while 46% said that a candidate who had an extra marital affair wouldn't get their vote. As for atheists, well a whopping 61% said that that was a negative trait that would keep them from receiving a vote.

The fact is, not believing in god scares the general public because believing in god, any god, is something that's so widely accepted, that society by default dictates that you have to believe in something to be accepted. It's not enough that the Bible, Koran, or any other religious texts all disagree on where the world came from or how to get to heaven, that ultimately religious folks all believe in some magical spaceman in the sky – believing in anything rather than nothing is preferential when it comes to creating camaraderie.

The fact is I'm an atheist. I don't believe in a higher deity, I don't believe in the Bible, the Koran, the Book of Mormon or any other religious text. I went to church as a kid and I thought I believed in god the same as everyone else around me. I had an aunt and uncle that took me to church with them and I felt accepted, and I felt like this was what I was supposed to do.

As time went on however, I realized that I never felt a 'divine presence' and when I read the Bible cover to cover, it literally scared the hell out of me. How could a god that was supposed to be so loving and forgiving be so selfish as to ask you to literally love him above everything else? How could this same god kill, murder, and have horrible acts done in his name on page after page after page?

I always joke with people that the easiest way to make an atheist is to have them read the Bible, but the reality is that it was a shock of reality for me as much as reading any book about science or even Charles Darwin's Origin of Species. There is however just as much wonder and amazing things in science as there will ever be in a book like the Bible, conversely there's a lot less rape, murder, and genocide in a science text than a book talking about god.



I do have morals and none of them are based on the Ten Commandments or other religious beliefs that have been passed along. I know I shouldn't kill a person because it's simply wrong, not because god told me it was wrong.

With the holiday season just around the corner, I'm sure to have friends ask me about how I'll celebrate Christmas, and I usually respond with the same thing every year: β€œIt's a day off from work.” But pushed deeper, I'll happily explain that I don't celebrate Christmas the same way that I don't celebrate Easter or any other religious holiday.

Sure, Christmas is more about gift giving and seeing family now than anything to do with the supposed birth of Christ, but it's something I'd rather not acknowledge and that's my choice. The same way I don't expect all of my friends to read the God Delusion by Richard Dawkins, or follow the speeches given by Christopher Hitchens.

The fact is I'm an atheist and that doesn't make me any better or worse of a person than anybody reading this article. But I refuse to be afraid to talk about why I don't believe a god exists the same way so many Christians happily thank god when something good goes right in their life.

If that makes me a lightning rod for criticism, so be it. I know I'm not alone and I'm happy to stand up and make the statement.

I am an atheist.

 

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PointBlank

PointBlank

New York, NY
November 2004

NOV 28, 2011 07:10 AM

I'm not sure if you've noticed the way Muslims are treated in much of America.

formerviking

formerviking

Denver, PA
May 2006

NOV 28, 2011 07:16 AM

As usual , the worst part of watching the Amanda Brown video was reading the comments left . Ugh . And I generally look at any holidays as a excuse to see family . Been doing that for years . Thankfully I work at a place now where no one gets worked up about my beliefs , maybe because the overnight supervisor is a atheist too and has told her coworkers as much .

CZ

CZ

San Diego, CA
July 2006

NOV 28, 2011 08:07 AM

Ironically, it seems to resemble the LDS churches NYC and other "major markets" campain of "I'm a Mormon" more than the it gets better thing..

www.mormon.org/people

They started the campain a few years ago in response to the Book of Mormon Musical.

Drama

Drama

Columbus, OH
January 2003

NOV 28, 2011 09:52 AM

PointBlank said:
I'm not sure if you've noticed the way Muslims are treated in much of America.



In general I would agree with you, but if you look at polls and people's opinions, Atheists are generally looked at with a lot more disdain than Muslims in this country.

We have elected officials in America that are Muslims, but I'm at a loss to name any that are openly Atheist.

wyldechylde

wyldechylde

San Jose, CA
November 2004

NOV 28, 2011 10:15 AM

For those who haven't already watch a public broadcast show called "The Atheist Experience." Its run by a non-prophet organization called The Atheist Community of Austin in Austin Texas. They have a live ustream feed every Sunday from 4:30pm - 5:30pm. If I hadn't watched that show I might still be afraid to consider myself an atheist.

PointBlank

PointBlank

New York, NY
November 2004

NOV 28, 2011 01:55 PM

Drama said:

PointBlank said:
I'm not sure if you've noticed the way Muslims are treated in much of America.



In general I would agree with you, but if you look at polls and people's opinions, Atheists are generally looked at with a lot more disdain than Muslims in this country.

We have elected officials in America that are Muslims, but I'm at a loss to name any that are openly Atheist.



Yes, but I'm responding to the idea that you'd get hatred like this:

simply by saying you're an atheist.

FreakPirate

FreakPirate

Canada
November 2002

NOV 28, 2011 02:02 PM

Drama said:

We have elected officials in America that are Muslims, but I'm at a loss to name any that are openly Atheist.



Pete Stark.

Drama

Drama

Columbus, OH
January 2003

NOV 28, 2011 02:45 PM

FreakPirate said:

Drama said:

We have elected officials in America that are Muslims, but I'm at a loss to name any that are openly Atheist.



Pete Stark.



Wow I stand corrected. Never heard of Mr. Stark before now.

And I'm not saying I don't feel sympathy for the Muslims who have been absolutely bashed unapologetically after the events of 9/11, when only the actions of a few seemingly condemn the whole group.

But in general, the word atheist really does seem like a four letter word in America. It's almost like because you're an atheist, or in this case because I'm an atheist, you really do wear the 'A' like in the Scarlet Letter.

JoshuaNoCoast

JoshuaNoCoast

Parker, AZ
October 2011

NOV 29, 2011 11:17 AM

The Muslim/Atheist reference isn't exactly a great comparison. People hate Muslim in this country because they're taught to. It's propaganda. Remember, we are in the midst of the longest war in American history, and "they" are the enemy. Yet, as an Atheist, it seems people are fearful or angry with my choice simply because they don't understand it. I get asked all the time why I'm Atheist or what I think happens when you die. When I answer I'm generally ridiculed or treated like I've made a mistake. (I love when people try to explain to me that "that's not what happens when you die", as if they've experienced it in the past.) It's perfectly fine for people to talk to me and try to recruit me for their religion, but if I argue for my ideas I'm the bad guy. It just seems to me that people with beliefs of a higher power feel some sort of entitlement over Atheists.There's no rhyme or reason. No source to trace it back to. They simply feel superior.

Rory_B_Bellows

Rory_B_Bellows

Dallas, TX
April 2007

NOV 29, 2011 01:34 PM

JoshuaNoCoast said: It just seems to me that people with beliefs of a higher power feel some sort of entitlement over Atheists.There's no rhyme or reason. No source to trace it back to. They simply feel superior.



Bingo

wyldechylde

wyldechylde

San Jose, CA
November 2004

NOV 29, 2011 05:21 PM


I decided to make a video giving a somewhat blanket response to the most common questions atheists have to listen to. These questions may be annoying but to be honest the more they get answered the more likely that some theists are finally going to get it through their heads what being an atheist really is all about.

Chainlink

Chainlink

Key West, FL
August 2005

NOV 29, 2011 11:51 PM

wyldechylde said:
For those who haven't already watch a public broadcast show called "The Atheist Experience." Its run by a non-prophet organization called The Atheist Community of Austin in Austin Texas. They have a live ustream feed every Sunday from 4:30pm - 5:30pm. If I hadn't watched that show I might still be afraid to consider myself an atheist.



It's run by a "non-prophet" organization.

biggrin

TheFuckOffKid

TheFuckOffKid

NEWSWIRE

Australia

NOV 30, 2011 05:46 AM

Chainlink said:

wyldechylde said:
For those who haven't already watch a public broadcast show called "The Atheist Experience." Its run by a non-prophet organization called The Atheist Community of Austin in Austin Texas. They have a live ustream feed every Sunday from 4:30pm - 5:30pm. If I hadn't watched that show I might still be afraid to consider myself an atheist.



It's run by a "non-prophet" organization.

biggrin



I liked that too, but wasn't sure if it was deliberate.

wyldechylde

wyldechylde

San Jose, CA
November 2004

NOV 30, 2011 01:12 PM

TheFuckOffKid said:

Chainlink said:

wyldechylde said:
For those who haven't already watch a public broadcast show called "The Atheist Experience." Its run by a non-prophet organization called The Atheist Community of Austin in Austin Texas. They have a live ustream feed every Sunday from 4:30pm - 5:30pm. If I hadn't watched that show I might still be afraid to consider myself an atheist.



It's run by a "non-prophet" organization.

biggrin



I liked that too, but wasn't sure if it was deliberate.


+1
I swear it wasn't intentional but I'm glad I did it! LOL!

SergeantPsycho

SergeantPsycho

USA
January 2007

NOV 30, 2011 04:42 PM

Chainlink said:

wyldechylde said:
For those who haven't already watch a public broadcast show called "The Atheist Experience." Its run by a non-prophet organization called The Atheist Community of Austin in Austin Texas. They have a live ustream feed every Sunday from 4:30pm - 5:30pm. If I hadn't watched that show I might still be afraid to consider myself an atheist.



It's run by a "non-prophet" organization.

biggrin



My father sent me that joke today. Heh.
I decided that if I tell people I'm Atheist, and they say "Does that mean you don't celebrate Christmas?" I'll respond with "No, that means I celebrate Christmas anytime I feel like it."

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