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Q: Your book is the reason that I recently got backstage and on the tour bus of one my favorite bands after a concert. This resulted in me hooking up and exchanging numbers with the frontman. He said he would call me the next time he was in town, which would be in about a month. Regardless, he told me that he wanted me to call him sometime and gave me a heart shaped locket before we parted. Should I call him or wait and see if he ever calls me or realize that this was a one-time opportunity and enjoy it for what it was?

-Not Sure in New England


A: Be bold and go for it! He gave you his number so use it. And, he gave you a locket?!? Wow. Sweet. That doesn't say "one time opportunity" to me. Call him and try your best to be cool, casual, and confident. But, keep your expectations low. The number could be a fake one or he might not even remember you. Maybe he gives lockets away to pretty girls like one gives quarters away to bums. You won't know until you call him. Good luck!



Q: I'm 19-years-old and have been with my boyfriend for over a year and half. We plan on getting married someday in the future, but we're not rushing anything because I'm young. The problem I have is with our sex life. I've never had an orgasm and he doesn't seem concerned with giving me one. He refuses to go down on me, he complains of "the flood," and doesn't really bother doing anything else. I enjoy sex, but I 'm just never fulfilled. What should we do differently?

-Unsatisfied in Florida


A: There are so many things wrong with this relationship I don't know where to start! First, 17 or 18 is too young to have met the man you're going to marry. Just trust me on that. Second, he won't go down on you? Fuck that shit. That point is dump-worthy alone. Third, and most important, if your boyfriend is not concerned with your needs then he is not a good boyfriend and won't be a good husband. That said, I didn't have my first orgasm until my twenties (sorry to all the boyfriends I faked it with!), so 19 isn't too weird to be in this situation. You need to learn to make yourself come first before anyone else can do it. Teach him what gets you off, and if he can't rise to the occasion there are tons of other men out there that I'm sure would love to fuck, lick, and suck the hell out of you.



Q: My boyfriend of three years doesn't want to have sex nearly as much as I do. I am 20-years-old and I think sex should be at least every other day. We used to have sex once or twice a day. I know most people would be happy with just that, but I'm simply not. My boyfriend is only 23, he should be all about sex right now! I know as he gets older its only going to happen less and less. I would resort to masturbation but it just never seems to be enough unless I have sex. I have mentioned maybe me getting a girlfriend (I'd fly both ways), but that resulted in a basic, "Hell no." What should I do??

-Sex Deprived in Sarasota


A: If you want to fly both ways, you need a man who is cool with that. He isn't cool with that and he's denying both who you are and what you need sexually. And, what guy wouldn't want two girls?! A gay guy, for one. A dud in bed, for another. Or, maybe your boyfriend just needs more encouragement. Tell him how hot he makes you. Tell him how great he is in bed, even if he isn't. Send sexy texts. I wouldn't break up with a guy if the only issue was that we only had sex twice a week. Twice a week is pretty damn good, girl. But, if he can't keep up with a sex vixen like you, it might be time to find a stud who can.



Q: I recently met two girls who play in a band together. I saw them perform and had great conversations with both of them. They are smart, sexy, and extremely talented. As of now I like them both. I would date/hook-up with either of them. I just would love to know how to express that I want to get to know both of them better (so I can decide which one to pursue) without putting out that "just friends" vibe or an obvious "I want you" vibe. How should I proceed?

-Confused in Connecticut


A: Whatever you do, don't flirt with or hit on both girls. You'll look like a male groupie and you'll end up with neither girl. Go to another show, have another conversation with each of the girls, and quickly decide which one you have more chemistry with and more in common with. Once you've zeroed in on the rock chick you're vibing with the most, ask her out. It's that simple.




Carrie Borzillo-Vrenna is Suicide Girls' sex, love, and life advice columnist. She is an entertainment journalist, rock wife, and author of Cherry Bomb: The Ultimate Guide to Becoming a Better Flirt, a Tougher Chick, and a Hotter Girlfriend, and to Living Life Like a Rock Star and Eyewitness Nirvana: The Day-by-Day Chronicle.

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