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Merry Christmas Eve from your local Buddhist columnist!

I’m down in Knoxville, Tennessee with my sister and her family. This week I appeared on my niece, Skylar’s YouTube show. Check it out:




Also check out my blog for the outtake version.

Tonight children all over the world go to sleep believing a mysterious man will break into their house late at night to leave them fabulous gifts. My niece is 11 and gave up on Santa Claus a few years ago. But she has some friends her age who, she says, still believe or at least pretend to believe to please their parents. I gave up on Santa when I was about seven, but my sister was two years younger so I made-believe I believed a bit longer. But I think most kids have outgrown the Santa myth by first or second grade.

For kids raised in religious families, the time you stop believing in Santa (or Hanukkah Harry or Kris Kwanza or whoever you choose) is often highly traumatic. I mean if Santa, Rudolph and the toy making elves aren’t real, what about the Father, Son and Holy Ghost? Even though my own family was not religious, I can clearly recall going through this dilemma in my childhood. For friends of mine who grew up in more religious households the realization that Santa was made-up triggered a massive crisis of faith from which some of them still haven’t recovered.

Faith is a tricky subject. While some Christians try to pass amendments recognizing Christmas, other Christians don't even have faith in Christmas. When faith means believing in the literal reality of things you cannot see, hear or touch you’re bound to run into trouble. In that very narrow sense of faith, faith in the reality of Santa’s Workshop in the North Pole and faith in the reality of Heaven and its Angels on High are precisely the same. They are both objects of the mind and, as such, both equally insubstantial and unreal. There is no more reason for a rational person to believe any more in one than the other.

This is why faith often turns people into psychopaths. It’s very hard to maintain the façade of believing in something you know deep down is just a figment of your imagination. In order to try and destroy your perfectly reasonable doubts you have to resort to all kinds of crazy shit. You might even fly a couple of airplanes into some big buildings just to prove to everyone you really believe in some bizarre fantasy although you know perfectly well you don’t.

People who come to Buddhism trying to escape from that kind of faith into something more sensible are often shocked when they hear Buddhists talk about faith. In fact a lot of Buddhists avoid talking about faith to those unfamiliar with the Buddhist take on the subject for fear of scaring them off. This sometimes leads people to feel they’ve been duped when they finally hear their teachers mention the subject a couple of years into the practice.

But faith and belief are important aspects of Buddhism. Human beings need faith and belief. This is one of the many reasons atheism is such an unsatisfactory alternative to religion. When we try to completely give up on faith and belief we feel empty and discontented. Like that poster on Agent Mulder’s wall says, we all want to believe. And like Agent Mulder, when traditional religions fail we’ll turn to UFOs, or Comet Hale-Bopp, or the The Dear Leader, or just about any whacky thing just to satisfy the very deep desire we all have to have faith in something.

To be sure, a lot of what falls under the heading of faith in what passes for Buddhism these days is little more than the substitution of one fantasy for another. Even the faith in “Enlightenment experiences” professed by some mutant strains of Zen Buddhism is just another fantasy. For my man, Dogen, though, faith was never directed at any object of mind. Faith was a matter of practice. You could have faith in the practice of zazen because you could actually enter into the practice yourself at any time. It’s not necessary to hang on to any belief in things unseen or far away. As your practice deepens, your real experience of the object of your faith grows. You come to see that the image of reality you’ve been fed by your parents, teachers, and religious leaders is utterly mistaken.

Tim McCarthy, my first Zen teacher, always liked to say that to practice Zazen you need an equal amount of doubt and faith. Without some kind of faith it’s just too damned hard even to sit yourself down on the cushion and do the practice. But without an equal amount of doubt, you’re far too likely to fly off into some kind of fantasy about the practice. The mistake that religions all make is to try to promote faith exclusively and kill all doubt. That just makes people crazy.

As far as Santa Claus is concerned, I’ve gone from not believing in him to having complete faith that he really exists. This comes from the explanation I heard my sister give Skylar about her take on Santa. Santa, she said, is just a name for the spirit of free giving that exists in all of us. The image of Santa as a fat man in a red suit is just an image we’ve created to express that spirit of free giving.

When we look at it that way, Santa is real and the Easter Bunny is real and Hanukkah Harry is real, and so too are Jesus and Heaven and Muhammed and all the rest. Even Buddha is real.

Me, I hope Santa brings me a copy of that new KISS DVD.

Merry Christmas everybody!

Brad Warner is the author of Hardcore Zen and Sit Down and Shut Up!. He maintains a blog about Buddhist stuff and a MySpace page too. If you're in Southern California and you want to try some Zazen for yourself, he has a group that meets every Saturday in Santa Monica.

 

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Tangus

Tangus

Altamonte Springs, FL
November 2005

DEC 26, 2007 04:54 AM

Poe said:
I have a great many reasons to believe in God over Santa Claus. Logical, rational reasons. Faith without reason is a superstition.

LOL logical rational reasons to believe in something that can't be proven and there is absolutely ZERO evidence of? Ok!


There's a reason why people also refer to the practice of religion as faith.

How do so many people not understand this?

And to everyone else, please don't respond with some silly, pretentious tirade about how religion and all the people who practice religion don't "understand it" either. I'm not about to involve myself any more with this thread, I just had to add this.

Dusti

Dusti

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

DEC 26, 2007 06:47 AM

Wow.... reading the comments was almost more entertaining than reading the article. smile

Brad, I like how you (or your sister, as it were) described Santa. Finding truth in the fantasy of the holiday.

ProphetNoise

ProphetNoise

Portland, OR
February 2004

DEC 26, 2007 08:55 AM

Hunter said:
Atheism is the opposite of religion. If you could prove to me using facts that there was a God, or goddess, or flying spaghetti monster, and show me the science to back it up, I'd start believing in whatever it was, just like I believe the world is round, etc. But I am willing to bet that if the situation were reversed, and someone proved definitively there was not a God, the believing sheep would just say "I don't care, I've still got faith."



Thank You


Brad_WarnerSay: Buddhism is often cited as being atheistic. But I prefer to think of it as non-theistic.



Ummmm, non-theistic IS THE EXACT DEFINITION of atheism.

Theism = belief in the existence of one or more divinities or deities.
a = prefix meaning 'not'

combine the two, viola! not-theist.

Atheism is also a reverse engineered term that i don't particularlly care for, but, that's another discussion.

Toku666

Toku666

Columbus, OH
May 2004

DEC 26, 2007 10:04 AM

I'd imagine American atheists would seem a lot less grouchy if we weren't living in a country where our "president" has deemed us non-Americans. Considering how a lot of other non-Americans are being treated right now, maybe atheists have one or two reasons to feel a little defensive. I've always found it strange that atheism seems to be a totally acceptable facet of society in European countries with state religions. It is almost ironic that in the society where we purportedly have full freedom to reject systems that aren't analogous to the real physical world around us, atheism must apparently continuously defend itself.

...it also really doesn't help when people keep telling us that what we're doing is "religion," either. It always feels like the "funny" meat-eaters smacking their lips and chewing open-mouthed to annoy their vegetarian friends. I find both practices kind of obnoxious.

dingoes8

dingoes8

Milwaukee, WI
March 2004

DEC 26, 2007 12:12 PM

ProphetNoise said:
Ummmm, non-theistic IS THE EXACT DEFINITION of atheism.



Semantically, yes. But the terms are very different.

I am a non-theist. Religion, and god, are not a part of my life. I do not think about them unless someone else brings it up.

I am not an athiest. Atheists have a very strong opinion on god, and it's an opinion that requires a leap of faith. There is no hard evidence in the world that says there is no god. Every single athiest looks at the world and makes a conscious decision to choose to believe that there is no god. That is an act of faith, no different from looking at the exact same world and choosing to believe that there is a god.

I think Brad's point was, if you're going to make a leap of faith and choose to believe something without any evidence to back it up, it's more fulfilling to choose to believe in something comforting than to choose to believe in the absense of something comforting. So to an unbiased spectator, atheism doesn't seem very appealing.

Meanwhile, me and the other non-theists or agnostics or whatever you want to call us are enjoying life for what it is, not wasting precious time and thoughts on things that may or may not be true, and not getting into silly theological arguments at every dinner party we go to.

Toku666

Toku666

Columbus, OH
May 2004

DEC 26, 2007 02:12 PM

dingoes8 said:

ProphetNoise said:
Ummmm, non-theistic IS THE EXACT DEFINITION of atheism.



Semantically, yes. But the terms are very different.

I am a non-theist. Religion, and god, are not a part of my life. I do not think about them unless someone else brings it up.

I am not an athiest. Atheists have a very strong opinion on god, and it's an opinion that requires a leap of faith. There is no hard evidence in the world that says there is no god. Every single athiest looks at the world and makes a conscious decision to choose to believe that there is no god. That is an act of faith, no different from looking at the exact same world and choosing to believe that there is a god.

I think Brad's point was, if you're going to make a leap of faith and choose to believe something without any evidence to back it up, it's more fulfilling to choose to believe in something comforting than to choose to believe in the absense of something comforting. So to an unbiased spectator, atheism doesn't seem very appealing.

Meanwhile, me and the other non-theists or agnostics or whatever you want to call us are enjoying life for what it is, not wasting precious time and thoughts on things that may or may not be true, and not getting into silly theological arguments at every dinner party we go to.



So would you say I have a "strong opinion" on ghosts because I don't believe in them? What about leprechauns? Elves?

Religion and god(s) are not a part of my life, and I likewise do not think about them unless someone else brings them up. These things do not make me not an atheist, however. I am once again wondering how so many people see a rational conclusion and decide that something "faith" based is happening.

The absence of evidence that there is no god is immaterial, philosophically speaking. Any honest atheist who has given the subject enough thought will tell you that the non-existence of god is no more provable than the existence of same. What is different is the falsifiability, and that puts an onus of proof on those that believe in god against all logical and rational proof contrary to their beliefs.

You say that I have taken a leap of faith. On what basis do you make that claim? What are your reasons for leaving that door open? I posit that the only difference between you and me is there's a sort of "maybe" in your head that is absent in mine. If you intended to point out that strident, so-called "militant" atheists are engaging in something that could arguably be called a "religion," then that's one thing. But I'm very unsure about you tarring all of us with one brush simply because we hew to the blunt side of Occam's Razor instead of choosing to stand on its edge.

Atheism is not the choice to believe in an absence of something comforting. I am comforted by the fact that I can make a difference in the world under my own power. I am comforted by the fact that I can love and be loved; I can enjoy sensations and experience because I am alive. While I am alive, I will be trying to enjoy myself as much as possible for as long as possible, within self-imposed constraints as opposed to constraints placed upon me because of religious moral code.

Whether or not one enjoys life is not really based on their belief or non-belief in supernatural entities. So as for your last paragraph above, that is, in fact, exactly what I do. If you wanted to call out argumentative people, you should have done that. Certainly, a lot of the atheists in this thread have the volume set pretty high. But you chose to once again tar all atheists with the same brush and brand what they're doing "faith."

d20

d20

San Francisco, CA
September 2003

DEC 26, 2007 05:24 PM

dingoes8 said:

ProphetNoise said:
Ummmm, non-theistic IS THE EXACT DEFINITION of atheism.



Semantically, yes. But the terms are very different.

I am a non-theist. Religion, and god, are not a part of my life. I do not think about them unless someone else brings it up.

I am not an athiest. Atheists have a very strong opinion on god, and it's an opinion that requires a leap of faith. There is no hard evidence in the world that says there is no god. Every single athiest looks at the world and makes a conscious decision to choose to believe that there is no god. That is an act of faith, no different from looking at the exact same world and choosing to believe that there is a god.

I think Brad's point was, if you're going to make a leap of faith and choose to believe something without any evidence to back it up, it's more fulfilling to choose to believe in something comforting than to choose to believe in the absense of something comforting. So to an unbiased spectator, atheism doesn't seem very appealing.

Meanwhile, me and the other non-theists or agnostics or whatever you want to call us are enjoying life for what it is, not wasting precious time and thoughts on things that may or may not be true, and not getting into silly theological arguments at every dinner party we go to.



pretty much exactly what i was going to say.

personally, i'm agnostic. i've come to terms with the slim odds of ever finding any concrete understanding of why we're here, and honestly, i can see where Brad is coming from when he says that the majority of the world doesn't want to go to sleep at night not "knowing".

it's a big, scary universe out there, and the only thing i can conceive of that's less appealing than settling for an ancient ghost story is standing up and asserting that the entirety of existence is made up only of what we can see and prove.

in that respect, i agree with Brad that the common brand of "nuh-uh" atheism is just as silly as theism (and less appealing).

Poe

Poe

SUICIDEGIRL

Texas, USA

DEC 26, 2007 07:00 PM

Tangus said:

Poe said:
LOL logical rational reasons to believe in something that can't be proven and there is absolutely ZERO evidence of? Ok!


There's a reason why people also refer to the practice of religion as faith.

How do so many people not understand this?

And to everyone else, please don't respond with some silly, pretentious tirade about how religion and all the people who practice religion don't "understand it" either. I'm not about to involve myself any more with this thread, I just had to add this.



Um, that's not what I was talking about. Read before commenting?

Poe

Poe

SUICIDEGIRL

Texas, USA

DEC 26, 2007 07:02 PM

dingoes8 said:

ProphetNoise said:
Ummmm, non-theistic IS THE EXACT DEFINITION of atheism.



Semantically, yes. But the terms are very different.

I am a non-theist. Religion, and god, are not a part of my life. I do not think about them unless someone else brings it up.

I am not an athiest. Atheists have a very strong opinion on god, and it's an opinion that requires a leap of faith. There is no hard evidence in the world that says there is no god. Every single athiest looks at the world and makes a conscious decision to choose to believe that there is no god. That is an act of faith, no different from looking at the exact same world and choosing to believe that there is a god.

I think Brad's point was, if you're going to make a leap of faith and choose to believe something without any evidence to back it up, it's more fulfilling to choose to believe in something comforting than to choose to believe in the absense of something comforting. So to an unbiased spectator, atheism doesn't seem very appealing.

Meanwhile, me and the other non-theists or agnostics or whatever you want to call us are enjoying life for what it is, not wasting precious time and thoughts on things that may or may not be true, and not getting into silly theological arguments at every dinner party we go to.


This was probably the sexiest response I've ever heard. You win in my book, sir.

guitargeek

guitargeek

Shawnee, OK
November 2003

DEC 26, 2007 08:55 PM

Toku666 said:
I'd imagine American atheists would seem a lot less grouchy if we weren't living in a country where our "president" has deemed us non-Americans. Considering how a lot of other non-Americans are being treated right now, maybe atheists have one or two reasons to feel a little defensive. I've always found it strange that atheism seems to be a totally acceptable facet of society in European countries with state religions. It is almost ironic that in the society where we purportedly have full freedom to reject systems that aren't analogous to the real physical world around us, atheism must apparently continuously defend itself.

...it also really doesn't help when people keep telling us that what we're doing is "religion," either. It always feels like the "funny" meat-eaters smacking their lips and chewing open-mouthed to annoy their vegetarian friends. I find both practices kind of obnoxious.



Wait... you and I agree on something? ALERT THE MEDIA!

ProphetNoise

ProphetNoise

Portland, OR
February 2004

DEC 26, 2007 09:18 PM

dingoes8 said:

ProphetNoise said:
Ummmm, non-theistic IS THE EXACT DEFINITION of atheism.



Semantically, yes. But the terms are very different.

I am a non-theist. Religion, and god, are not a part of my life. I do not think about them unless someone else brings it up.

I am not an atheist. Atheists have a very strong opinion on god, and it's an opinion that requires a leap of faith. There is no hard evidence in the world that says there is no god. Every single atheist looks at the world and makes a conscious decision to choose to believe that there is no god. That is an act of faith, no different from looking at the exact same world and choosing to believe that there is a god.

I think Brad's point was, if you're going to make a leap of faith and choose to believe something without any evidence to back it up, it's more fulfilling to choose to believe in something comforting than to choose to believe in the absence of something comforting. So to an unbiased spectator, atheism doesn't seem very appealing.

Meanwhile, me and the other non-theists or agnostics or whatever you want to call us are enjoying life for what it is, not wasting precious time and thoughts on things that may or may not be true, and not getting into silly theological arguments at every dinner party we go to.



I have to respectfully disagree with some of what you said. I'm trying to go about this without sounding like i'm trying to start a flame war... i'm not.

But i don't think it take a leap of faith to not believe in something. Look over your shoulder. Do you see the unicorn in the room? Would you believe me if i told you that there are invisible unicorns following all of us around? Are you taking a leap of faith by not believing me? I really don't think so.

I was born. I walk around the earth. There's no god present, nor any reason to create one in my head or believe in one, nor am i experiencing evidence of one. Someone comes up to me and says "there is a god"... and then i'm taking the leap of faith (backwards) because i failed to take the extra step in acknowledging something that seems completely fabricated with no evidence?

I also disagree that it's more fulfilling believing in something comforting for the sake of comfort, than it would be to, i dunno, understand the world around me as best i can through scientific means which actually looks at what is through evidence, etc. This is not to start a religion vs. science debate. But to make the general statement that people find god/religion more comforting than the alternatives is flawed. Maybe it's true for many people, but not everyone.

And yes, the definitions are semantics. But it's still true. Technically an agnostic is an atheist. Not an anti-believer, but an atheist, as far as definitions go.

I hope i don't come off as condescending. I don't mean to, although i feel like i come off that way online (it's why i usually avoid the boards)

ProphetNoise

ProphetNoise

Portland, OR
February 2004

DEC 26, 2007 09:21 PM

guitargeek said:

Toku666 said:
I'd imagine American atheists would seem a lot less grouchy if we weren't living in a country where our "president" has deemed us non-Americans. Considering how a lot of other non-Americans are being treated right now, maybe atheists have one or two reasons to feel a little defensive. I've always found it strange that atheism seems to be a totally acceptable facet of society in European countries with state religions. It is almost ironic that in the society where we purportedly have full freedom to reject systems that aren't analogous to the real physical world around us, atheism must apparently continuously defend itself.

...it also really doesn't help when people keep telling us that what we're doing is "religion," either. It always feels like the "funny" meat-eaters smacking their lips and chewing open-mouthed to annoy their vegetarian friends. I find both practices kind of obnoxious.



Wait... you and I agree on something? ALERT THE MEDIA!



hehe, yeah, it's astonishing how, as an outsider from religion, i see how absolutely dangerous and militant the religious in America are. They scare me because they're not very different from the religious fundamentalists of non-xtian faiths, in other countries... specifically the muslim extremists that 'we' are fighting against in other countries. And i would think it was just a bunch of rogue extremists, live and let live to all the other religious people who just go to church and are nice to each other, except for the fact that there are millions of them, and they have a lot of money that comes from both their extremist selves, AND from regular churchgoers who think their alms are going to good causes without a second thought, AND they have tons of political power, and the backing of one of the most bloodthirsty militaries in the world.

whatever

hellboy7

hellboy7

Austin, TX
July 2004

DEC 26, 2007 10:55 PM

Wow! I am impressed by everyone who has posted since last night. Very nice, an actual conversation without condescension or mean spirited finger pointing. (applause)

Personally, I could cop out on the whole "there is a god/there isn't a god argument." But, here we go. I don't believe in god. There, I said it. After 37 yrs on this earth, understanding how religions are formed, and why humans began worshipping god(s) in the first place, I can't honestly, logically, emotionally, or spiritually agree with the idea that there is this big guy in the sky watching over us. Some would say it is a sad realization. I disagree. Its opened up my perspective to much broader possibilities. Maybe there is a god(s), but so far nothing that man has done, or shown has proven that there is. (heck, it could be aliens, or us manipulating the timeline for all I know.) I freely admit there is more in this universe than our measly senses can detect.

I understand it takes a leap of faith to make that decision, some would say an abandonment of logic, or person. But, for every religion that has ever been conceived, or implemented, don't they ask for submission, or a choice of submission? Submit to gods will? And in doing so, doesn't that mean submitting to teachings that both contradict themselves and the very notion of free will? You are more than willing to disagree with me. Thats fine. I will defend to the death your right to worship as you see fit. That is your choice. Or is it? (no irony or sarcasm implied)

Now, does this make me a non-theist, or an atheist? (shrug)

Synirr

Synirr

Austin, TX
January 2007

DEC 26, 2007 11:56 PM

The whole "atheist" versus "non-theist" thing irritates the shit out of me. Well, the semantics of it, anyway. It's like one Christian denomination claiming that other denominations are not, infact, Christian at all. It's retarded. If you want to differentiate between militant atheists and your typical atheist, go for it, but a "non-theist" is still by definition an atheist. If you can't deal with that, then I'm sorry you're ashamed of the category you fall into, or have difficulty admitting to yourself that you lack belief.

d20

d20

San Francisco, CA
September 2003

DEC 27, 2007 12:37 AM

Synirr said:
The whole "atheist" versus "non-theist" thing irritates the shit out of me. Well, the semantics of it, anyway. It's like one Christian denomination claiming that other denominations are not, infact, Christian at all. It's retarded. If you want to differentiate between militant atheists and your typical atheist, go for it, but a "non-theist" is still by definition an atheist. If you can't deal with that, then I'm sorry you're ashamed of the category you fall into, or have difficulty admitting to yourself that you lack belief.



the world apologizes for being more complex than you'd like it to be.

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