
It's too easy, if you're part of the Industrialized World, to assume that a healthy live birth is the norm, that adequate medical care is a given, and that women are essentially selfish creatures who either don't want children because they care too much about their own comfort and convenience (god forbid) or do want children because they don't care about overpopulation and think that their own precious brats are the most important people on earth. Sometimes it seems as if 95% of the arguments we have about reproductive rights come from such narrow ignorance of what pregnancy and birth are really like that it tempts one to forbid people from having opinions.
Luckily, hope springs eternal that people can learn that what they think they know isn't necessarily all there is to it. E.g., this report from the Center for Reproductive Rights about maternity facilities in Kenya.
In the labour ward we were three women and there was only one nurse who was attending to us. She was not nice. She treated us badly. It was my firstborn. She came and abused me and slapped me as I was screaming. The other women were also being abused. . . . The first woman gave birthshe was helpedand within three minutes my baby came and the nurse used the same scissors she had used on the other woman. I can't forget. . . . There was no water there. There is always a complaint about water. She took my baby and wrapped my baby in my lesso. She asked me if I had cotton [and told me where to put it]. . . . I was just alone from 3:00 when I gave birth, to 7:00, [when] the woman next to me noticed I was bleeding. I couldn't sit. I was squatting on the bed. There was blood all over. . . . I was not checked. The woman got water for me and I bathed. I didn't have anything to wear or sleep on.
And that's if you're lucky enough to have access to a maternity ward and nurses. In Africa overall, women have a 1 in 16 chance of dying in childbirth from things like thromboembolism, hypertension, amniotic fluid embolism, infection, or hemmorhage[url]--not to mention the possibilities of dying while pregnant from an ectopic pregnancy, heart disease, or domestic violence.
Yes, for most people reading this, pregnancy is likely to go well. But that's no excuse for basing your opinions about what women need on your own experiences--or lack thereof.
Bitch_PhD's always been lucky with the whole birth control/pregnancy/childbirth thing, personally, but her own sister, giving birth in the hospital where Bitch and sis were themselves both born, was told to "shut up" by a nurse while laboring in a hallway. So it ain't just Africa.
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