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  • WEDNESDAY FEBRUARY 16 2005 11:00 AM

Inappropriate Actions Toward a Stranger (SHOCK AND AWE!)

Submitted by RANDOM FUCKBAG

Edited by Flux

After many drinks of whiskey and beer, a friend of mine and I went to a local club where I know the bartender. After a couple more drinks, a young lady came over to talk to us, minutes before we agreed that it was time to leave. I really wanted to go, but my buddy, although not interested in her, wanted to see where this could go. In my drunken state, wanting to end this as soon as possible, I grabbed her ass. At first, she couldn't figure out which one of us did it. Then she got up to pay the bartender, and I did it again this time, though I got a little more than I intended. She looked at me with shock and awe. My friend slipped out the back door, and I followed, but not before spitting an ice cube at her and telling her that I loved her.

This is not something that I would do while sober. This was not something that anyone should do at all. I was completely disrespectful toward this young lady. My actions were wrong, and they make me sick just thinking about them. This is not who I am or something that I would do.

My question is, that from the little information that I remember about her, general description and where she works, do I apologize or just leave it be? I would like to let her know that I am sorry if I hurt her in any way. I was thinking that I would get some flowers and put a note in them and leave them with the front desk. Is this creepy, should I leave it as is, or is this a good idea?

As a side note, this act was the one that made me realize that I need help with my drinking. It's not like I wake up in the morning, and the first thing that I need is a drink. It's more like I just can't stop at one, and I just need to get wasted. After the other night, I am really afraid of what I am capable of.

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Lenore

Lenore

SUICIDEGIRL

Oregon, USA

FEB 16, 2005 11:30 AM

DEFINITELY APOLOGIZE (give her a card in person)

[Edited on Feb 16, 2005 11:31AM]

Nic

Nic

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

FEB 16, 2005 11:36 AM

Whilst I think that you acted like a total fuckhole and should apologize, I don't think you should actively track her ass down to do so. You'll just look like a stalker.

But yeah, if you see her out and about, do apologize sincerely, and you might be lucky and not get a drink thrown over you, or her kneecap in your nuts.

Amina

Amina

SUICIDEGIRL

Texas, USA

FEB 16, 2005 12:10 PM

Fuck that shit. I'm sick of guys doing shit like this to me and then blaming it on the booze. In my point of view, alcohol just gives you the courage to do the things that you don’t have the guts to do while you are sober.

Wallow is your guilt. And I hope that she punches you in the throat the next time she runs into you.

Roethke

Roethke

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

FEB 16, 2005 12:11 PM

Flowers to her work are fine as long as you make it clear that it is ONLY as apology and not an attempt to date her.

And yeah, quit drinking. I would have fucking killed you if I was that girl.

Midnyte

Midnyte

SUICIDEGIRL

Arizona, USA

FEB 16, 2005 12:31 PM

I would not track her down at work, that could seem really creepy. Better to go to the bar next week, be totally sober and apologize while keeping a respectful distance. If she is not there next week, try another form of apology, but you owe this girl some serious sincerity.

You violated her once by your actions, stalking her at work will most likely make her feel more violated. If you do anything and can remember her name, you can maybe MAIL a card to her work without any description of what you did exactly, just an apology and an admission you are going to seek help for your drinking. She remembers what you did, and if someone else at work reads the card, it will embarrass her more if you write anything other than I am SO INCREDIBLY SORRY. If you send flowers all the girls at work will come over to ask her what she got them for and it doesn't seem like something she should have to relive or have to tell them about.

At any rate this was that one wake up call you get in life. Next time you may find yourself having to register with the police department every time you move. Make good use of this and do seek help or stop drinking entirely before you really fuck your and someone else’s life up.

LE

LE

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

FEB 16, 2005 01:00 PM

don't track her down.

and don't be a dick when you're drunk.

Olivia

Olivia

Emeryville, CA
May 2002

FEB 16, 2005 01:09 PM

She hates you, dude. If you did that to me and got away with your balls, you better not see me again because it'd be like a mandate from above telling me it was ok to kick your ass.

Don't track her down. Do go to AA or whatever.

Noir

Noir

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

FEB 16, 2005 01:15 PM

I think she probably already realizes that you have a problem and that you did something completely unacceptable. Therefore, your apology would really only benefit you and most likely just make her think about what a dick you were all over again. Don't put it on her to make you feel better about what you did. Leave her alone.

Ciel

Ciel

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

FEB 16, 2005 01:16 PM

1. stalking no

2. if you see her apologise

3. stop drinking

everyones a winner!

Neyrissa

Neyrissa

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

FEB 16, 2005 01:55 PM

The girls have said it all, already. If you see her in the street, or in the bar again, grovel, you need to apologise. SINCERELY. To the point where you should say it to the whole bar over a loudspeaker. I'm surprised she didn't kick your ass.

Stop drinking. What you did was disgraceful and embarrassing. Go get some help.

Twwly

Twwly

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

FEB 20, 2005 04:54 PM

Amina said:
Fuck that shit. I'm sick of guys doing shit like this to me and then blaming it on the booze. In my point of view, alcohol just gives you the courage to do the things that you don’t have the guts to do while you are sober.

Wallow is your guilt. And I hope that she punches you in the throat the next time she runs into you.



Ditto.

Holly

Holly

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

FEB 27, 2005 08:32 PM

yep you're a dick.

dont go to her work.

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