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Get your own effin place already!

SUNDAY JANUARY 30 2005 4:15 PM

Submitted by RANDOM FUCKBAG. Edited By DebraJean.

So my boyfriend and I moved into the house we bought back in April 2004. At that same time, His very good friend, Worthless Cunt*, decided he wanted to move back home from a different city. My boyfriend and I talked about it and agreed that he could stay in our spare bedroom until he gets his own place. We both assumed this would be a temporary situation, as in a few months.

Fast Forward to January 2005, 10 months later, W.C.* is still living in our house and as far as I know has made no plans to move out. Not only that, but now his girlfriend has been staying at our house the past few days by herself all day while we are all at work.

This nerves me. I got home yesterday and noticed that all my stuff was arranged differently in my bathroom. This also nerves me. Apparently she must have decided she was going to try to reorganize my things for me. I understand that she was probably just trying to be nice, but it bugs the hell out of me. I don't even like it when my BF puts away the laundry because I have a certain way things go. Plus, I don't like people I barely know going through my stuff...

Every time I tell my BF that I think its time that we had a talk with W.C.* and tell him he should start looking for an apartment so he could move out, he just gets all pissy and acts like I'm being a Bitch, and says that he doesn't really mind Bob* living with us. I don't want to seem like a crazy bitch girlfriend and its nothing against W.C.* personally, I just want the house to myself again!! I want to be able to come home from work and walk around in my undies again! I want to be able to have sex in the house without being confined to the bed room and without being uber quiet because W.C.* is in the next room! I want my cozy life back with my boyfriend, among other things!

Am I just being a major control freak? And since talking to my boyfriend about how I feel doesn't seem to accomplish anything what else can I do?

13 Comments

Ciel

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

JAN 30, 2005 04:21 PM

oh oh oh. this simply will not do!!!

Lotus

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

JAN 30, 2005 06:10 PM

Tell him: "I'll walk around topless and have sex with you on the kitchen table if you tell him it's time to go"
See if that helps

Olivia

I'm lost

May 2002

JAN 30, 2005 07:52 PM

Put your foot down and kick out Worthless Cunt yourself! Your boyfriend and his friend have imposed on your generosity long enough.

Bailey

SUICIDEGIRL

Colorado, USA

JAN 30, 2005 07:54 PM

i assume you are paying just as much rent as the boyfriend? and since WC has been living with you for ten months, you probably know him better than you did when he first moved in, correct?

TALK TO HIM YOURSELF!
its really the best way to get things done.

and if the girl being there is bothering you, also talk to her or him or himANDher and get it out in the open. perhaps she doesnt realize that you are bothered and if you keep it to yourself NO ONE WILL.

dont be passive aggressive. be an adult!
good luck

Polly

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

JAN 30, 2005 08:28 PM

your first mistake was asuming ANYTHING about the person moving in. you have to really lay all the cards out on the table in situations like these.

and.. i agree with Bailey.

Wren

SUICIDEGIRL

Minnesota, USA

JAN 30, 2005 09:37 PM

Are they paying rent? If not, I'd tell them to get the fuck out, it's your house.

Midnyte

SUICIDEGIRL

Arizona, USA

JAN 30, 2005 09:57 PM

Have a talk with the guy. If he pays rent though you are being a cunt if you get on him for having a girlfriend over. I was the girlfriend in that situation and got accused of rearanging stuff and messing with stuff when I never did any such thing. If he pays a fair share of rent and his girlfriend is not suddenly actually LIVING there, don't put the shit down on her, or make it about ehr at all.

Maybe talk to WC and tell him you plan to take up sewing or photography and will be needing your spare room within the next 30 days. Chances are he'll be out sooner than that. If you make it not personal, things will go smoother and you all will still be friends afterward. Once again, don't be shitty to the girlfriend unless she really did something shitty. She is an innocent bystander here and is probably acting with liberties around the house because WC said nice things about you.

Myra

SUICIDEGIRL

Germany

JAN 31, 2005 04:44 AM

This is shitty. Set a time line, like "You'll be outta here in 4 weeks, no matter if you have a place or not."

Doesn't have his gf an apt? And when not, they both will have to look for one.

I wouldn't want anyone in my house for such a long time.

Be strong hun

Nic

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

JAN 31, 2005 06:20 AM

You're going to have to be The Bitch in this situation, put your foot down and kick them out. 10 months is not 'temporary'. I sounds like he's mooching.

Clover

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

JAN 31, 2005 06:23 AM

yeah tell him to take some responsiblilty for his own life...it sounds like you two need to have your own place

Ayres

SUICIDEGIRL

Argentina

FEB 01, 2005 08:26 AM

First, I agree with Bailey.

Girl, its your HOUSE. Tell him that you need more privacy, talk to him as an adult, tell him that you wont allow this any longer, make him realize thats unfair for you, and thats your house too.

Or... start walking on your undies, and bring some homeless friend to your house. If he can do that, you can too.

You are not beeing a bitch, I would kill my bf if he brings for ten months some looser friend. KILL HIM, really. Talk to him and express him how you feel, and If he starts with that stuff of you beeing a bitch, tell him that you are talking as an adult, and if he cant listen to you, you will speak with that sucker.

Hes not paying any rent????? Anything??? Damn, girl, kick him out of your house. OR scare your bf and get your stuff and move somewhere else for a while.

Damn, what a shitty situation. But in your place I would throw all his clothes away, and change the key. For my bf too. Good luck.

Gadget

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

FEB 01, 2005 12:58 PM

10 months is a long time. I would talk to him since your boyfriend is obviously not willing to step up to the plate.

Tell him you need to see him making an honest effort in saving money and finding a place within the next two weeks. Tell him he has until April...that'll be a full year. He shoul be able to wrap his mind around the fact that a year should have been more then enough time for him to get his act together.

Especially now that he's letting his girlfriend stay, he's acting as if he has some equal share in that household. He's obviously way to comfortable.

Kythe

SUICIDEGIRL

Argentina

APR 25, 2005 08:24 AM

Do it yourself if the boy gets mad put him in his place too if he loves you he wont put the ass that has been living in your house before you.
This guy is just taking advantage of your hospitality! worthless cunt indeed...