Wow... usually it's the other way around. I mean, if I want a relationship, I find a guy who just wants sex. You sound like and admirable person, sweetie. The best advice I could give you is to really just keep trying to find a girl who wants the same thing. All you can really do is wait for the person. Don't try to push it on someone who clearly doesn't want the same thing as you. The right girl will come in time!

Try "Dating". It's this funny thing where you ask a girl to go out with you and then you treat her with respect and show her how you feel. You know, show her how nice it is to hang out with you and not just screw. Also, when you ask her out she will have a chance to tell you, "Hey I'm not into that I just want a fuck buddy" and you will know the score and will be able to make an informed decision. Maybe after dating for a while you might get a bit of a "Relationship" going on and she will let you cuddle with her.

Or just hold out for what you want. It might help to start the cuddling routine before you start the sex routine.

i've noticed these days that a lot of girls are saying they just want fuck buddies because ...
1. afraid of getting hurt, so if they reject relationships then there is no failure

2. they think that it's what every guy wants and they want to be wanted even if they lose self respect

3. they are insecure and use sex to make them feel as if they have worth

and rarely...
4. they are in tune to their sexuality and know they have physical desires to be meet, but are to focused on life to care about relationships.

now this is just my opinion, but i'm pretty good at it. once you break down the barriers of self defense in a person, you night come across a whole different thing. the question is who are you really wanting to take the time to do that with..........UNTIL THEN, GET LAID AND ENJOY THE FREEDOM!!!!

Perhaps you should stop picking up drunk girls from your local dive bar. It's possible that you are actually finding these sexually generous young ladies in the non-fiction section of your library, but I seriously doubt it.

If you don't want sex the first time you meet her, then don't take her home with you two hours after learning how to pronounce her name correctly. This applies especially if you just met her at the bar.

Hey, just ask a girl if she wants to go out on a date- preferably somewhere where you can talk. That way you can get to know each other. Take things slowly- it'll be worth it in the long term if you meet a girl that's genuinely into you, and then when you do have sex it'll be 1000 times better.

I know a lot of girls that give off the impression of just wanting to get laid without any other kind of emotional closeness, even if they don't REALLY want that.. maybe they WOULD want more than just sex, but they just feel like that's "asking too much". Personally, I think they should just communicate how they really feel instead of resorting to the "I just want to fuck" vibe, but the girls I know that do that are usually insecure about what they want. do you voice what you're looking for to the girls that you get involved with? i mean, do you tell them that you would like something more intimate?

the other possibility is that the girls you're meeting really DO just want sex, as I know a lot of girls like that, too. hell, i've been one of those girls.
good luck!

it'll work itself out in the end. say no to the ones who move too fast...you'll eventually find one that does it how you want to do it.

until then, wear eyeliner, paint your nails black, and make lots of mixed tapes.

i kid.

sounds like you are going for the wrong kinda girl. i mean i can see this happening every so often...but if there is pattern to it then stop asking "what is wrong will all the girls that i am interested in? " (at this point i'll also mention that i just like to fuck around...so i dont think sexually outgoing girls out there like myself are "wrong")......but ask yourself "why do i find myself consistantly interested/in bed with these sexually outgoing girls?" ...........

It depends on how old you are.

Women in their twenties, it seems, have finally realized - after recovering from their puberty-induced gawkiness - that they are hot, men want them, and hell, sometimes they want them right back.

Sometimes.

Some girls don't want to cuddle or have sex, and we try to hide from you. and you. and you.

Just find a girl to mindfuck. Nothing beats that.

This may sound harsh, but quit hanging out with slutty girls.