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So, my girlfriend is working on studying for her preliminary doctoral candidate examinations, and has been rather preoccupied and disinterested in sex. I've been spending a lot of time jacking off while looking at pictures on www.suicidegirls.com. I'm pretty sure that my girlfriend would be upset by that, but it's not like I'm using HER computer to jerk off. She doesn't have to know, right? Am I a bad person for hiding it from her? Should I tell her? Should I hint at it in a joking way, and then if she reacts badly, pretend like I'm just kidding?

Please help!

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Lotus

Lotus

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

NOV 02, 2004 12:31 PM

I just sort of expect that whoever I have in my life at the moment looks at porn and jacks off. I do.
Maybe I'm just a great girlfriend though. wink
If you really think she'd have a problem with it, maybe you should talk about it.

Wren

Wren

SUICIDEGIRL

Minnesota, USA

NOV 02, 2004 12:38 PM

I never know what to tell people in a situation like this.

I don't think porno and jerking off is something you should hide in a relationship. A lot of girls are uptight and upset by porno - they feel it's akin to cheating. These girls are crazy. If your girlfriend is crazy (and since you're hiding it from her, this is very possible) she'll most likely be upset by what you're doing.

If she is understanding and knows that porno represents a fantasy woman who is in no way a danger to her relationship with you, you're probably safe.

You aren't a bad person by any stretch of the imagination. You know her better than we do. Would this freak her out? Would we freak her out? If she would be okay with it, there's no reason for you to keep it from her. If it would upset her, I don't see any reason to hint at it.

Ayla

Ayla

Petaluma, CA
February 2004

NOV 02, 2004 02:00 PM

Personally, I think it's okay if a guy gets his rocks off every once in a while to some nudie pics. Hell, I'm sure that once my set goes live that there will be a couple guys here and there who'll decided to whip it out and satisfy themselves. (Not to toot my own horn or anything. wink )

But if it's becoming a habit...um, yeah, then there could a problem, and you should really talk to your girlfriend about this. Especially if you're feeling you have to hide it. Guilt is tricky like that.

Besides, wouldn't you find it a little more satisfactory to have discuss the problem and get back in the routine of sleeping with you girl, as opposed to jerking it to a couple of photos here and there and remain silent about it?

Nixon

Nixon

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

NOV 02, 2004 02:19 PM

How do you feel about the other guys she's using in her fantasies?

Tawnya

Tawnya

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

NOV 02, 2004 07:55 PM

Nixon said:
How do you feel about the other guys she's using in her fantasies?



Bingo.

Midnyte

Midnyte

SUICIDEGIRL

Arizona, USA

NOV 02, 2004 08:22 PM

I pretty much expect jacking off from men. It is a perfectly normal activity so I doubt she would be too upset. She is educated and apparently over 25, I'm sure she gets it and is not going to flip out. All you are doing is jerking to web nudity not off fucking her best friend.
That said it seems so benign to me that I wouldn't even worry about telling or not telling. If you say something say it as a joke.


Aspen

Aspen

SUICIDEGIRL

New York, USA

NOV 03, 2004 09:38 AM

That is so not a big deal and you're not really doing with anyone else it's just a fantasy. What goes on in your dirty little miind is your own business. It doesn't lessen your feelings for her. However, making her feel sexy and desired is a start to warming things up in the bedroom. smile

Twwly

Twwly

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

NOV 04, 2004 10:09 AM

It's not a big deal, as long as it's not interfering with your relationship, or time you could be spending with her.

Solaris

Solaris

SUICIDEGIRL

British Columbia, Canada

NOV 04, 2004 11:48 AM

man, i must be crazy. wait, i know i am. but it makes me sad when boyfriends jerk off to porn. maybe it makes her crazy, but you have to accept that this may be a reality. obviously, alot of girls are cool enough to understand that it's nothing against them though... so i guess you have to take a chance. i don't think you should lie about it, however, it is a little thing and as long as you're good at hiding it i don't think it's a huge betrayal.

Ayres

Ayres

SUICIDEGIRL

Argentina

NOV 10, 2004 10:35 AM

Tawnya said:

Nixon said:
How do you feel about the other guys she's using in her fantasies?



Bingo.



Bingo again

Sydni

Sydni

SUICIDEGIRL

Washington, USA

NOV 10, 2004 10:36 AM

Do whatcha do. I don't care if my guy jacks off to porn...but if she's all yuppy about it, you might want to keep it your little secret. wink

Holly

Holly

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

NOV 12, 2004 06:55 PM

jerk off. do what you want, you're allowed to jerk off...espeically to SG. do you tell your girlfriend when you take a big shit? well masterbating is like taking a shit....it is your personal moment. enjoy

Polly

Polly

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

NOV 12, 2004 07:00 PM

no, she doesn't have to know.
it isn't like you;re any less attracted to her..

it's just like, fun.

oh, and don't ever bring it upwith her, either.

that might upset her.

[Edited on Nov 12, 2004 by Polly]

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