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  • WEDNESDAY OCTOBER 6 2004 12:00 PM

I'm getting pretty annoyed.

I need help!!! Maybe I'm mental or just smell funny but I can't get a girl! I have like a hundred "girl friends" as in just that: friends. All of them say that I'm a great guy and that any girl would be stupid not to want to be with me.

Every time I go to get a girl I get the same thing and I add another to the unbelievably long list of friends.

I know that I should be grateful just to have these people in my life but when Saturday night comes around I'm on the computer on SG alone while the rest of society are out holding hands on the beach and with their special someone and I'm holding hands with my mouse!

Please help!

 
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Roethke

Roethke

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

OCT 06, 2004 03:03 PM

OR c) they actually DON'T like you and they are just trying to let you down gently. Ask one of the girls who is actually your friend why you are so unsavory to the opposite sex. Ask one of the girls who is known for her brutal honesty and maybe you will get a straight answer because clearly you haven't gotten one so far.

Erin

Erin

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

OCT 07, 2004 01:12 AM

Maybe you're not putting out enough pheremones. Maybe your brain signals are on a different frequency than most. Maybe you're one of those hard-to-get-involved-with astrological signs. Maybe the chemistry is off. Maybe they're just not "the one".

Or, more likely it's that good old confidence failing you. Or perhaps you just don't seem emotionally stable enough to date (hello no crazies please), maybe they can't picture themselves kissing you because of your mealy-mouth --- but otherwise you're an awesome guy. What female friend would ever tell a guy that? Maybe you're actually keeping them at a distance because you're a little insecure and afraid to give someone a hand to play you with. If that's the case, you'll be shocked eeek to hear that lots of people are like that and you just have to take a chance and maybe get hurt. I advise you to just work up the balls to kiss her next time. Come on, just do it! Get out of the friend zone for once in your life.... Do something impressive and manly like showing a girl that you think she's hot and sexy and sooner or later it will work, I promise.

xoxo
erin

Felidae

Felidae

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

OCT 07, 2004 04:34 AM

Stop obsessing about girls and start obsessing about yourself. The sooner you meet your own standards of perfection the sooner you'll meet everyone elses. Um...and...if you don't mind my asking - how exactly do you expect to meet a girl if you spend every Saturday night at home playing with your...mouse?

Ayres

Ayres

SUICIDEGIRL

Argentina

OCT 07, 2004 01:08 PM

I agree with Erin... do it!
Ill recomend you to change your appearence. I dont know you, I dont know how you look, but one thing I know. If one of my friends that I just see as a friend, suddenly changes his hair, his clothes and his parfum (for good of course), probably I wont understand a shit, and if he kisses me, probably I would take him right to bed.

Good luck then.
Xoxo
Ayres.

Nic

Nic

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

OCT 08, 2004 07:05 AM

Confidence is the key. If the girls in question are single and looking to date, then just pluck up the courage to ask them out. If they knock, you back, then that's too bad, but I think oyu'll be surpised how successful you'll be.

navydclown

navydclown

San Diego, CA
July 2004

OCT 08, 2004 12:00 PM

I need help!!! Maybe I'm mental or just smell funny but I can't get a girl! I have like a hundred "girl friends" as in just that: friends. All of them say that I'm a great guy and that any girl would be stupid not to want to be with me.

Every time I go to get a girl I get the same thing and I add another to the unbelievably long list of friends.

I know that I should be grateful just to have these people in my life but when Saturday night comes around I'm on the computer on SG alone while the rest of society are out holding hands on the beach and with their special someone and I'm holding hands with my mouse!

Please help!