Member: Suzy_Kabloozy

Suzy_Kabloozy Oh Lord, let me die naked in a fast car with the radio full on

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DECEMBER 29, 2004 @ 03:00 PM


Okay, my post-Christmas mood has turned out NOT to be trauma. All my problems seem to be of the quality variety.

The thing that is bothering me the most today is that my hand itches where the burn is healing from the iron (yes, regular iron) when I tried to straighten my bangs without a blow dryer the other morning. Now it is healing and it is itchy and I'm shedding little pieces of skin. puke

Now I *promised* I would go to a sex addict meeting tonight but I'm not sure what the goal is supposed to be? I might want to learn not to be so stupid but I rather enjoy my addiction to sex. Besides, it's not *addiction* ... it's my sexual peak. I waited a long time for this stage of my life and by gosh I plan to enjoy it. Another quality problem, I'm sure, and the babysitter is going to watch my child overnight so when I am *well* I am going to spend the night with *him.* I guess I'll agree to just about anything -- even an SLAA meeting -- if it means I get laid. But come on people, I have only been with 3 guys in this whole millenium! Just because you couldn't beat me off of these dudes with a stick doesn't mean I'm a sex addict, does it?

You say *FREAK* like it's a bad thing! wink

Well, I don't know where else to go with this one, so let's take an informal poll:

1. Am I a sex addict just because I'm insatiable?
2. If yes, is this an addiction I would actually want to break?
3. If no, how much more must I crave sex before I am an addict, exactly?

No right or wrong answers ... just trying to get others to co-sign on my behavior. wink

Love to you,
Suzy tongue shocked kiss
Comments
BigBlack81

BigBlack81

Atlanta, GA
November 2004

DEC 29, 2004 03:12 PM

1. I doubt it. Addiction usually implies a lot of self destructive natures as a result of your addiction to something.

2. If it affects your life to the point where you cannot function, are hurting people and causing them to walk away for their OWN sanity or causing you to make poor choices on poor odds, or any combination of the above, then yes. Normally it would be.

3. That all depends on you. But remember, you can have cravings and not be an addict. Addiction a lot of times is about self control.

That all said, I think I probably need to go to a LAA meeting m'self. I know that baggage alone would disqualify me from being able to date or canoodle with you probably...but we could always talk and trade notes.

Holla back. You're cute. biggrin

BigBlack81

BigBlack81

Atlanta, GA
November 2004

DEC 29, 2004 03:29 PM

I was more referring to my baggage, not yours. biggrin

Though to be honest, if we didn't have baggage, where would the drama be in our lives? Life without baggage is life without opportunities to grow.

I didn't think you were a true nymphomaniac but I did want to drop some knowledge on your head from someone who is dealing with addiction on the front lines. Or at least the day to day fear of it.

I might not be a love addict but I definitely am way too alone for my own good. Hence why I'm here.

BigBlack81

BigBlack81

Atlanta, GA
November 2004

DEC 29, 2004 03:56 PM

I also was referring to my addiction to love, not my issues with drugs. But believe me, they day I no longer have to do crystal to stay awake for work will be a great day in my life. The fact that I do it so rarely is a small comfort; addiction happens like this all the time.

A car will help in this. No longer having to rely on others for my needs would help a lot.

And yes, when on crystal thoughts become long and big. It's probably why I get even quieter when I'm on crystal. I am so scared to open my mouth because I'm scared I'll scare someone with my head.

And thank you for the birthday wishes. Thank you muchly.

Now, time for bed. *pinches your tummy and snuggles*

Machiavel

Machiavel

United Kingdom
September 2003

DEC 29, 2004 05:53 PM

Hello smile smile smile

Machiavel

Machiavel

United Kingdom
September 2003

DEC 29, 2004 06:47 PM

Not too much, just wanted to say Hi. How are you?

Neumie

Neumie

North Hollywood, CA
December 2004

DEC 29, 2004 08:37 PM

1. Nope
2. Hmmm, probably not if it doesn't adversely affect the rest of your life.
3. A lot.

Well if you are an addict, enjoy your addiction, everyone else will. wink

Pirate_Romeo

Pirate_Romeo

Oklahoma City, OK
November 2004

DEC 29, 2004 08:55 PM

1. No that would make you my dream girl. wink

2. Only if it impacts taking care of your little ones.

3. It's more when you can't control yourself that you have to wory aout addiction.

the_cheat

the_cheat

Beaverton, OR
May 2004

DEC 30, 2004 01:17 AM

I am happy the my happiness is infectious. biggrin Everyone deserves to be happy, even if there's no apparent reason for it.

And hey, there's nothing wrong with a healthy sex addiction. We all have it to some degree. wink

~Lotso lovins,

T.C.

Conchobhar

Conchobhar

Columbia, MD
January 2004

DEC 30, 2004 12:09 PM

I could only wish to meet a sex addict frown

Neumie

Neumie

North Hollywood, CA
December 2004

DEC 30, 2004 01:01 PM

Thank you, it's taken years of pratice to be this cute. And you're not so hard on the eyes yourself. love

the_cheat

the_cheat

Beaverton, OR
May 2004

DEC 30, 2004 03:07 PM

Have a safe and happy New Year celebration! smile

See you next year! biggrin

AstralTraveller

AstralTraveller

United Kingdom
January 2003

JAN 01, 2005 07:20 AM

1.No
2.No
3.Doesn't everyone want sex a lot of the time wether they realise it or not? biggrin .I'm not sure what breach of which parameters would constitute addiction, however some doctor or 'specialist ' or religious freak somewhere has probably tried to lay down the lines...how about i''m addicted to breathing, when should I die? tongue
P.s. Your picture is the best! wink

Ring

Ring

Chicago, IL
July 2004

JAN 01, 2005 10:44 AM

probably not an issue until it begins to interfere with other portions of your life. until then, climb on and enjoy the hormonal ride

thrashead

thrashead

Los Angeles, CA
October 2004

JAN 06, 2005 10:24 PM

Sounds normal to me. Most people won't admit (at least publicly) that sex is on the brain probably (guesstimated) about 80% or more during a 24 hour period. The answer is simple you like sex, nothing wrong with that. I think where something becomes an addiction (it doesn't matter if it's sex, smoking, drinking, eating, buying stuff, etc.) if it greatly impairs your capacity to make rational decisions and hurts you and those around you, especially those you love, and you can't stop the behavior that's causing the problem. That's addiction.

It doesn't sound like addiction to me. Keep having fun. smile

Take care. smile

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