It’s been a while, nothing exciting has really happened to me since my last post.
I checked out the new Tings an Times in Garsfontein, I love the place, its one of my favorite places in Pretoria. It’s one of those places where you can sit down and have a nice meal and a quiet drink, very chilled, plus it’s not crawling with underage emo kids, or your typical Pretoria variety douche bag. I highly recommend checking it out.
I met one of my best friends there, since we haven’t seen each other in ages. We used to get up to all kinds of stuff when we were younger and it was a shame that we didn’t see each other that often since we both started working ect. He’s married now and on a very short leash, I suspect his wife isn’t very amped on the idea of the two of us hanging out too often since he tends to loosen up a little too much. She always gives him the “we always hang out with YOUR friends, we never do anything with OUR friends” speech. No exceptions that night and at around 10pm he got the “I think it’s better if you stay at TJ’s tonight” line. He must have realized the tone of her voice that the ice is starting to crack very quickly and quietly got into the passenger side of his car so that she could take him home. The look on his face reminded me of a puppy that just peed on the rug and knows that punishment is imminent.
I’m very thankful that I’m not dating a total bitch. My girlfriend is pretty awesome, I have a lot of freedom that other guys don’t have. I can go see out with friends without having to fill in a service request form 4 weeks prior to the night of going out. I suspect she’s a master of psychiatry, she knows that I know I have it to good to mess around with other women. I think the jealous types are the ones that know they will probably fuck around, therefore a feeling of paranoia kicks in that causes them to do everything in their power to stop the other person from going out without them. I think no matter how much you love someone, everyone needs to have their space to do things on their own from time to time.
I suspect that I have to travel to Vilanculos in Mozambique a few days from now, should be good, I have to break a site down, so it’s going to be like a paid holiday. Plus the extra dollars will help towards my Netherlands trip in October, must say I’m pretty damn excited.
Anyway, thanks for reading
I checked out the new Tings an Times in Garsfontein, I love the place, its one of my favorite places in Pretoria. It’s one of those places where you can sit down and have a nice meal and a quiet drink, very chilled, plus it’s not crawling with underage emo kids, or your typical Pretoria variety douche bag. I highly recommend checking it out.
I met one of my best friends there, since we haven’t seen each other in ages. We used to get up to all kinds of stuff when we were younger and it was a shame that we didn’t see each other that often since we both started working ect. He’s married now and on a very short leash, I suspect his wife isn’t very amped on the idea of the two of us hanging out too often since he tends to loosen up a little too much. She always gives him the “we always hang out with YOUR friends, we never do anything with OUR friends” speech. No exceptions that night and at around 10pm he got the “I think it’s better if you stay at TJ’s tonight” line. He must have realized the tone of her voice that the ice is starting to crack very quickly and quietly got into the passenger side of his car so that she could take him home. The look on his face reminded me of a puppy that just peed on the rug and knows that punishment is imminent.
I’m very thankful that I’m not dating a total bitch. My girlfriend is pretty awesome, I have a lot of freedom that other guys don’t have. I can go see out with friends without having to fill in a service request form 4 weeks prior to the night of going out. I suspect she’s a master of psychiatry, she knows that I know I have it to good to mess around with other women. I think the jealous types are the ones that know they will probably fuck around, therefore a feeling of paranoia kicks in that causes them to do everything in their power to stop the other person from going out without them. I think no matter how much you love someone, everyone needs to have their space to do things on their own from time to time.
I suspect that I have to travel to Vilanculos in Mozambique a few days from now, should be good, I have to break a site down, so it’s going to be like a paid holiday. Plus the extra dollars will help towards my Netherlands trip in October, must say I’m pretty damn excited.
Anyway, thanks for reading
AUG 23, 2011 12:22 PM
Sounds like you have a great relationship 
I totally agree, leashes should not really exist, except in the bedroom (or wherever you choose to play) used in the kinky way LOL. Which one is your girlfriend? Or do you have two? 
Wow did not know Tings expanded to one in Garsfontein, used to stay there, but haven't been back to Pretoria much since I finished my studies. Nice place though.
OCT 23, 2011 05:15 AM
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