I guess I'm asking for to much when it comes to finding a women that I want to spend time with. here's the list for those who would like to know.
1.) not interested in me souly for what's happened in my life (it feels more like pity when all they seem to care about is that I'm a marine that was wounded in combat)
2.) physically attractive, may be chauvinistic but I'm not going to be sexually intimate with a women who's over weight and isn't at least somewhat physically active
3.) I'm done with the bipolar, obsessive, pathological lying, daddy issues, feel sorry for me, depressive, someone rapped me while I was drunk and topless at an all male keger, girls. and that last word is the biggest problem I want a mature women (not a cougar or milf) but a women in my age group that's beyond being a little high school girl
4.) I rarely drink now and I refuse to even take prescription narcotics let alone illegal drugs. so obviously I don't want someone that has a substance abuse problem and goes out partying all the time. nothing wrong with drinking but till you're drunk every other night or even every weekend is too much in my opinion and I don't care to deal with people that have those problems anymore
5.) and I don't want to be with a slutty chick, I'm STD free and want to stay that way. and sorry but I'm not one to share my sexual partners. it's not my life style
6.) and if she has a kid thats fine and I can possibly deal with that. but when she has her own little fire team, especially when they all have different daddy's I draw the line.
7.) and lastly I want a women that can give me space when I need it and doesn't have to know every gory detail of my past. again I'm no pity case and will not be treated as one.
I guess this is too much to ask for in a women, I still hope that one day I can find someone like this were we click. but until then I will be more than happy to settle for my Friday night listening to my music and watching movies by myself.
1.) not interested in me souly for what's happened in my life (it feels more like pity when all they seem to care about is that I'm a marine that was wounded in combat)
2.) physically attractive, may be chauvinistic but I'm not going to be sexually intimate with a women who's over weight and isn't at least somewhat physically active
3.) I'm done with the bipolar, obsessive, pathological lying, daddy issues, feel sorry for me, depressive, someone rapped me while I was drunk and topless at an all male keger, girls. and that last word is the biggest problem I want a mature women (not a cougar or milf) but a women in my age group that's beyond being a little high school girl
4.) I rarely drink now and I refuse to even take prescription narcotics let alone illegal drugs. so obviously I don't want someone that has a substance abuse problem and goes out partying all the time. nothing wrong with drinking but till you're drunk every other night or even every weekend is too much in my opinion and I don't care to deal with people that have those problems anymore
5.) and I don't want to be with a slutty chick, I'm STD free and want to stay that way. and sorry but I'm not one to share my sexual partners. it's not my life style
6.) and if she has a kid thats fine and I can possibly deal with that. but when she has her own little fire team, especially when they all have different daddy's I draw the line.
7.) and lastly I want a women that can give me space when I need it and doesn't have to know every gory detail of my past. again I'm no pity case and will not be treated as one.
I guess this is too much to ask for in a women, I still hope that one day I can find someone like this were we click. but until then I will be more than happy to settle for my Friday night listening to my music and watching movies by myself.