Adulthood sucks sometimes.
I ran into my former employer of 6 1/2 years last night.
Without going into the backstory too much: He fucked over my wife badly concerning health insurance (She worked for him also). The result was several thousand dollars in emergency medical bills, failed litigation (Fuck you, MD verbal contract law), and us more or less having to hit the reset buttons on our lives after walking out of his shitty establishment.. (Literally within a week of our wedding.) It was ugly, and resulted in not much more than it being EXTREMELY unsafe for this asshole to be anywhere near me.
He got very lucky last night......
So anywho.. I'm out behind my current place of employment.. (Brewers Alley, Frederick MD 21701) and this shitpipe goes strolling by with his wife. (it was a coincidence, we're next to a parking deck)
I didn't want to be vulgar or aggressive in front of his wife, who really had nothing to do with anything concerning him and I.
Not wanting to lose my job, or (more accurately) end up in jail, I took the high road, and discreetly turned my back, hopeing this asshole would think I didn't see him, or take a hint and move on.
No such luck.....
I hear his condiscending little voice behind my back. "Hellloooo John" (Drawn out by him to sound dramatic)
Frankly, I tensed up completely and and had to do the internal "count to 10" to keep myself together. I didn't respond, hoping he would think I didn't hear him and move on....
Again... Nope...
Attempted Suicide Lesson---> So he decides to be cute and say loudly: "I guess someones giving me the cold shoulder"
I muttered "Fuck you Graham" under my breath and walked back into work.
I'm a 36 year old man. I'm also an old ass punker who has seen and done things that would really fuck my life up badly if I did them now. I love my family, and I do whatever I have to to take care of them and myself. The latest harsh lesson I'm learning, is this: Wrecking someones shit to honor your wife, will cause more problems than it solves.
This asshole exploited that, and (very stupidly) mistook it for cowardice. I'm afraid if that were to happen again, I wouldn't be able to keep myself from doing what I really wanted to do.
If I did that, I would be in jail now. Most likely for a very long time.
I know this reads to be overly dramatic, but I took the time to post the whole backstory (again), it would make sense.
I'm have a wierd fear of karma, and don't wish harm on anyone, but I can hoenstly say that ANY harm that came to this guy would make me happy.
I'm really miserable about this. I chose to let this guy emasculate me in public, in exchange for the ability to
continue my job, and to take care of my wife (Who is disabled).
I hoped typing this would make me feel better.. It didn't.
Ole Mr. Baker should take that 4 leaf clover, and shove it up his ass. He has ZERO idea how lucky he was.
I can't promise he'll be that lucky again.
I honestly hope I never see this guy again. Nothing good can come from it. Only bad, life changing damage.
A quiet dark alley with just the 2 of us would be nice though. A boy can dream.
Lucky for him, my life and my wifes are more important to me than him. I'm sure he thinks that makes him the "winner".
I ran into my former employer of 6 1/2 years last night.
Without going into the backstory too much: He fucked over my wife badly concerning health insurance (She worked for him also). The result was several thousand dollars in emergency medical bills, failed litigation (Fuck you, MD verbal contract law), and us more or less having to hit the reset buttons on our lives after walking out of his shitty establishment.. (Literally within a week of our wedding.) It was ugly, and resulted in not much more than it being EXTREMELY unsafe for this asshole to be anywhere near me.
He got very lucky last night......
So anywho.. I'm out behind my current place of employment.. (Brewers Alley, Frederick MD 21701) and this shitpipe goes strolling by with his wife. (it was a coincidence, we're next to a parking deck)
I didn't want to be vulgar or aggressive in front of his wife, who really had nothing to do with anything concerning him and I.
Not wanting to lose my job, or (more accurately) end up in jail, I took the high road, and discreetly turned my back, hopeing this asshole would think I didn't see him, or take a hint and move on.
No such luck.....
I hear his condiscending little voice behind my back. "Hellloooo John" (Drawn out by him to sound dramatic)
Frankly, I tensed up completely and and had to do the internal "count to 10" to keep myself together. I didn't respond, hoping he would think I didn't hear him and move on....
Again... Nope...
Attempted Suicide Lesson---> So he decides to be cute and say loudly: "I guess someones giving me the cold shoulder"
I muttered "Fuck you Graham" under my breath and walked back into work.
I'm a 36 year old man. I'm also an old ass punker who has seen and done things that would really fuck my life up badly if I did them now. I love my family, and I do whatever I have to to take care of them and myself. The latest harsh lesson I'm learning, is this: Wrecking someones shit to honor your wife, will cause more problems than it solves.
This asshole exploited that, and (very stupidly) mistook it for cowardice. I'm afraid if that were to happen again, I wouldn't be able to keep myself from doing what I really wanted to do.
If I did that, I would be in jail now. Most likely for a very long time.
I know this reads to be overly dramatic, but I took the time to post the whole backstory (again), it would make sense.
I'm have a wierd fear of karma, and don't wish harm on anyone, but I can hoenstly say that ANY harm that came to this guy would make me happy.
I'm really miserable about this. I chose to let this guy emasculate me in public, in exchange for the ability to
continue my job, and to take care of my wife (Who is disabled).
I hoped typing this would make me feel better.. It didn't.
Ole Mr. Baker should take that 4 leaf clover, and shove it up his ass. He has ZERO idea how lucky he was.
I can't promise he'll be that lucky again.
I honestly hope I never see this guy again. Nothing good can come from it. Only bad, life changing damage.
A quiet dark alley with just the 2 of us would be nice though. A boy can dream.
Lucky for him, my life and my wifes are more important to me than him. I'm sure he thinks that makes him the "winner".