MEMBER SINCE: April 2007

occupation: chef,wine consultant, author, journalist, photographer

heroes: mlk, jfk, gandhi, john lennon

makes me sad: child abuse, poverty, injustice, animal cruelty

body mods: both ears. one tat.

sign: leo

i lost my virginity: 17 -- longtime girlfriend. first time for both of us.

makes me happy: my kids, travel, food, music, art, sailing on the open ocean, mountains, lakes, riding the rails on a train or roller coaster

fantasy: sex on a train (possibly wiith multiple partners)

most humbling moment: admitting my infidelity to my ex-wife. also my most enlightened moment...

stats: 6'7" -- i'm pretty fucking tall...

gets me hot: body art, open-mindedness, creativity, individuality, intensity