I went for drinks with a woman tonight and it was going well initially (I was 'very interesting 'and 'a nice guy' apparantly) until I went into one of my blabbermouth confessions that I'm a member of this site and dated someone from it and she kind of flipped out. Suddenly she was saying we didnt have enough in common and that she "isnt the suicidegirl-type girl I'm looking for". Hmm. I'm not too down about her in particular but this hasnt been an isolated incident recently.
I feel like Johnny Marr at the end of The Smiths - something that made me happy now hinders me and I need to move on. My heart hasn't been in the site for some time and just producing journals quoting lyrics is doing a disservice to the interesting people on my friend's list. (Did you know the last journal was a Nelly Furtado lyric?).
Some things have niggled me about this site. I feel that too many people value the concept of stuff more than the actual reality of it. I could give examples but I'd be preaching to the wrong people. I pruned my friend's list before writing this so if you are reading this as a friend then it means I think you are great.
So yeah, I'm not sad to leave and I may even make the odd 1 month return in the future. Im not leaving the planet either so if you want to keep in contact with me hit me up online or email me: ldwarren@hotmail.com
Lots of love to you all, especially darling Iggy.
Leon
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JUN 01, 2006 11:42 PM
Well, i for one think it's a shame that you won't be around anymore, but you're reasons are good.
Good luck, and do keep in contact with us matey.
But if i'm honest, i don't understand about the girl thing. Really, you being a member doesn't mean anything. I went on a date recently (ssssh, don't tell anyone) and i told him about this site, and i blurted everything, just so he knew what he was getting into, and he was so fine with it. Not impressed let's say, and he did admit that if he'd met me before my involvement with the site he wouldn't be happy with it, but seeing as sg was in my life before him, he was fine. That's how i think it should be.
But look, you have 1 more day here, and if you want a chat or anything, you know where i am, if not, you have my msn.
You'll be missed mate, and good luck. 
JUN 02, 2006 12:26 AM
That's sad to hear, but I can seeyour reasons why.
I have your email address. Drinks in London some time? 
JUN 02, 2006 02:31 AM
I'm really sorry you're leaving... I like you, and I hope to see you again one day, though we don't have a great track record.
But, and just my opinion, if someone flips out about this site, then they probably don't have a strong enough grasp on reason to go out with you anyway.
Do you use msn? Add me: leolasuicide@hotmail.co.uk
JUN 02, 2006 02:53 AM
Sorry you're leaving but I understand your reasons.
If she's so narrow minded or felt threatened by your being a member of a pretty innocuous porn site then it's better to know early on I think. I've only told a couple of friends know that I'm on here, cos I don't think it really matters but I had a similar thing a couple of years ago - over music. A woman was appalled that I liked heavy metal & her attitude changed from the moment I mentioned it. The silly fool also couldn't get her head round my also enjoying orchestral music - she viewed them as totally incompatible. 
Anyway life exists outside of here (so they tell me 
) I'll give you an email later so that you have mine too, & we've got each others mobile no.s.
I'm always up for a drink if you are at a loose end, but it will probably be me suggesting it first.
Best wishes till then
quietlythere
USA
June 2004
JUN 02, 2006 05:02 AM
i'll miss you around here, but you know how to reach me, and we have each others email addresses so stay in touch
JUN 02, 2006 05:11 AM
JUN 02, 2006 06:50 AM
well i am sorry to see you leave, but i understand what you mean. perhaps i will see you on aim one day.
well best wishes
JUN 02, 2006 09:59 AM
JUN 02, 2006 11:13 AM
Good luck in all that you do.
JUN 02, 2006 12:09 PM
JUN 02, 2006 12:32 PM
youll be issed you really will
JUN 02, 2006 01:33 PM
JUN 02, 2006 07:07 PM
Johnny Marr? Aw, but now I feel like Morrissey. Wanting to stay, but nit having the essential people around me. 
I'll miss you.
kharma_sf@yahoo.com if you wanna.
JUN 03, 2006 03:01 AM
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