i would say yes if your breaking it down that way. I feel that all guys and girls flirt in some way or another. Even if it is harmless it could still be considered cheating.

not at all! im lucky enough to have never been cheated on and i have never cheated in my life, if u make it clear how slow and painfully ud kill them and find decent people its all cool (im not implying anyone whos cheated isnt decent, i no people make mistakes, i just mean finding someone that wont take u for granted and wants to be with u and only u)

Yeah. Personally, if I found out my significant other cuddled with someone else, I would consider that cheating.

I've been cheated, and it ended my marriage. It started out as apparently harmless texting and so on and so forth. Typically I should say all people cheat, but I don't believe that to be the case at all. A faithful person will know not to put themselves into a position that the temptation would be there, and even if they were put there by accident would have the will power to not do it.

It is sort of sad that the person would have the temptation in the first place. I mean, if you are madly in love with someone, being commited to someone, I don't really get how someone would even be tempted to try/think about doing something ya know? But see that's just my opinion on it. I could never cheat, I would never have the temptation, even If they are attractive, nor would I ever put myself in a situation like that. idk, like it would be sorta insulting to know if my bf/gf had to fight his/her temptedness. It would still hurt.

not everyone

No, not cheating, but there will likely be flirting, though innocent (like praising sets here) that could be construed as crossing the line. Guys' eyes will wander, we tend to do that, but hearts don't have to wander. Talking to other people is something that's going to happen, let's face it, on both sides, but if the partners are secure enough they won't be bothered. I am quite crazy about craftygrrl, as anyone who reads her blog or mine already knows, but I am not bothered if she wants to post sexy pics and I hope she isn't too bothered if I compliment other women, but my heart ain't goin' nowhere, as they say. This is a good philosophy:

I never have cheated on anyone but I have been cheated on and it blows, specially when you walk into it. Ugh... Worst feeling ever.... Before that I would flirt still with people who dated someone but after that, I don't do it at all anymore. Not cool. Totally gives you a new perspective or it did me. I really think it has fucked up my head a lot now lol I get angry now when I even see it on tv. But I don't think this has answered any of your questions. But no I don't cheat.

Talking to other people? Haha.

talking to other people as in having a boyfriend or girlfriend and trying to chill with other people because they are cute, and youre intentions are to "get to know them" more than a friend. obviously hor.

I think there's a key difference between saying someone is lovely, for example, and wanting to "get to know them" in a more aggressive way. If I compliment someone for being very pretty and leave it at that, especially if I make it known to them that I am happily involved, that really IS a compliment without any strings attached or catches (and by the way, the person complimented can truly appreciate the comment because I'm not hitting on them or using the compliment as a stepping stone to something else, I simply mean what I said). But what happens after the compliment is key. If that's the end of it there's no intent and that should be fine. But if the response is then to want to get closer to the person that may be the beginning of a problem. Does that make sense? At the end of the day it's intent that's key and if your intent is to "get to know them more than a friend," that intention is unmistakable.

yes, i completely get what youre saying and I agree. I wish all men thought like you !

Thank you for the add!

no problem!

Not all. I don't. Unless you give me reason to (cheat on me).