I am fucking livid!!!!
Last night, I worked till 10pm at my job. Bc I worked, Dan & our friend R went out to a bar/club. There was a chance that they were gonna fool around. That part was I fine with (we're in an open relationship). But unfortunately, R drank so much, she made out w/ a few guys & when Dan witnessed that, he downright told R that they're definitely not fooling around. She became so pissed & drunk, she wanted to go home w/ some random guys that she just met at the bar. Her purse was in Dan's car & he refused to give it to her bc he felt that because she drank so much, R should go home w/ Dan. I completely agree; we didn't know these guys & we were both concerned for her safety. So I left my house in the middle of the night in the pouring rain to hopefully talk some sense into R. Did I mention I have to be at work early today? I drive 45 mins to this bar. I see Dan near the entrance. R walks right out, storms out I should say & just starts walking into the parking lot. I finally approach her & she couldn't believe that I came. She was angry, drunk, resistant & literally told me that she was sorry that Dan was my bf. Dan unlocked the car & R got her purse. I tried talking to her while this random asshole is telling her oh i'll take you home. Fuck you! We don't know you! I don't want to see my friend on the 10pm news saying dead white girl found in bushes. I had no choice but to call R's sister, M. I explained the situation; she agreed w/ me & Dan. Unfortunately R ended up leaving w/ this random guy. Whether he drove her home, I don't know.
It's R's bday on Tuesday & Dan & I were gonna send her flowers on her bday whole she's at work; SO NOT HAPPENING NOW! Then I was supposed to go out to dinner w/ R & her friends. I doubt I'll go bc I'm terrified she'll pull another drunk stunt. I try to help my friend bc I'm concerned for & all I get was screaming, anger & resistence.
Last night, I worked till 10pm at my job. Bc I worked, Dan & our friend R went out to a bar/club. There was a chance that they were gonna fool around. That part was I fine with (we're in an open relationship). But unfortunately, R drank so much, she made out w/ a few guys & when Dan witnessed that, he downright told R that they're definitely not fooling around. She became so pissed & drunk, she wanted to go home w/ some random guys that she just met at the bar. Her purse was in Dan's car & he refused to give it to her bc he felt that because she drank so much, R should go home w/ Dan. I completely agree; we didn't know these guys & we were both concerned for her safety. So I left my house in the middle of the night in the pouring rain to hopefully talk some sense into R. Did I mention I have to be at work early today? I drive 45 mins to this bar. I see Dan near the entrance. R walks right out, storms out I should say & just starts walking into the parking lot. I finally approach her & she couldn't believe that I came. She was angry, drunk, resistant & literally told me that she was sorry that Dan was my bf. Dan unlocked the car & R got her purse. I tried talking to her while this random asshole is telling her oh i'll take you home. Fuck you! We don't know you! I don't want to see my friend on the 10pm news saying dead white girl found in bushes. I had no choice but to call R's sister, M. I explained the situation; she agreed w/ me & Dan. Unfortunately R ended up leaving w/ this random guy. Whether he drove her home, I don't know.
It's R's bday on Tuesday & Dan & I were gonna send her flowers on her bday whole she's at work; SO NOT HAPPENING NOW! Then I was supposed to go out to dinner w/ R & her friends. I doubt I'll go bc I'm terrified she'll pull another drunk stunt. I try to help my friend bc I'm concerned for & all I get was screaming, anger & resistence.
