hmmm well you girls always go for the bastards maybe you should give us nice guys a try & just see what happens. even though i am a guy i understand ...i think nikki is getting the push, so i will be single again wink wink.

So, I'm beginning to think that you're my British Female Twin Sister (And I have no idea why that was all caps).
I totally agree with everything you have posted here and I think I wrote a series of journals that were the same idea about a week back.

Thusly, you rock and I salute you.

girlfixer, you might be a guy under that cute female skin. maybe a middle-aged guy. many of my friends and i are plagued with these issues.

it takes some time to figure out what you want and 19 is not the time to make lifelong decisions. you show great wisdom in staying home and rubbing one out.

i would raise my hand in pride and unity as a Masturbator of the World but i am typing with one hand and , uh, you know...

no worries. I'm oversexed as well. And my vibrators are my closest friends. Haha. I'm sure my boyfriend would be happy to hear this.

I don't like sleeping around. Never done it, don't plan on it!

I am a person, not a package.

Yhea, lately Ive been wanting all of the above, lots of good sex, true love, and just someone to hang with.

G'luck finding that person, it's really hard

Oh...
*raises hand*

Can you be oversexed?

I know what you mean regarding not knowing what you want from love, I suppose for me it depends what mood I'm in, I mean right now I could do with somebody just to cuddle, but I don't seem to have anyone I'm comfortable enough to cuddle, but only a few days ago all I wanted was sex.

Masturbation shall conquer all.

i don't know what i want anymore either. i seem to not want to get involved in a relationship at all right now, and i don't really need sex, but then once in awhile i hook up with my ex- which just confuses the hell out of me because if i didn't need sex why would i be going to the extremes of getting it from someone i don't want to be with? blah. anyway, i think there are lots of us who are confused.

for your tonsillitis :
did the doctor prescribe ice cream?
or am i living in a dream?
keep pugging away
one day someone will come your way
and life will be a scream

i am a jerk.

sandwich good . . . . fuckbuddy good (aslong as they dn't fall in 'love' with u) . . . . love sucks!

never slept aroung either . . . . not appeallin but not havin a the lovely emotional crap that comes with relationship add's to the appeal?!
raise your hands . . . . but . . . . okay not gonna go there!

i think that you and i are way too similar for comfort. my thoughts on sex are quite similar to yours. i have no fucking idea what i really want and its driving me insane. about a month ago i wrote a journal entry about it. it sounded quite alot like yours. or yours sounded like mine. whatever. anyway in the end i decided no more casual sex. its not that i have sex very often (i really dont. sleeping around doesnt exactly appeal to me either) its just that half of me wants tons of casual sex (the horny typical 19 year old)and half of me wants the next person i sleep with to be the person i marry(my complex true side), the person i really love. im 19. im so fucking confused about everything. i dont truely know what i want but im smart enough to know and admit this. i think that ive decided that sex is ultimatly too self destructive for me to deal with.

I would raise my hands but they're a bit busy at the mo. As for casual sex, it can certainly fulfil a need in the short term but it removes the emotional involvement, which can spoil future encounters. That's why mastubation is so good: it's sex with someone you love.

crap I got a second page post

Anyway Im not confused because I am a romantic and I know that I want a real loving relationship far more than just fuck buddies. My only problem is that none of the girls I meet want to have a real relationship with me, they just want to be fuck buddies. This in turn fuels my bitterness which feels a lot like heart burn

I would raise my hand and unite but I use both when masturbating