Can a man have a period? Yeah I think so... we just don't get the cramping and bloating. I have been really expressing little things that piss me off... so I thought I'd share them with you... (yeah your gonna see a bit of my dark side today)
This I guess is over something that I saw this past weekend... there were no words exchanged, no temper-tantrums, nothing overtly hostile at all. I just felt that a guy got pissed at me cause his woman was checking me out and, in a way, was flirting with me. I didn't persue it... however I wanted to so very badly... lol hey she was sexy and very sweet. But I chose the careful path so it would not become an issue. but here is my point about the whole situation....
Ok can you really consider a couple that want just a single bi female, swingers? I don't have a problem with people that want just that... I just don't really consider them swingers. Especially when you get to talking to the couple and the lady is giving me the eye, and flirting to beat the band and the guy starts getting upset that she is flirting... kinda one sided don'tcha think?
This got me thinking... sure there are couples that are honestly just looking for that extra female so the lady of the couple can play with another lady without regrets. HOWEVER if the lady of tha couple decides that she would love to have another male in the bed, I think the guy should let her... What is good for the goose, is good for the gander.
If your in this lifestyle and you get jealous to the point of becoming violent, because your woman is attracted to another man ... then you have no business being in the lifestyle. So just throw away your fantasy about being with two women, if you are not open to the idea that your wife or girlfriend may have the fantasy of being with two guys.
Take a look on SLS or Swappernet, and you will see a HUGE amount of single males, then you will see couples wanting the elusive single bi female, then you will see couples that are up for just about anything.
Some of the ladies that I have talked to are just doing it to please their man. That is very sweet of them, but does it work? I would have to say it might work... but not likely. Also if your looking for just the bi female why are you trying the swinger sites?
Here is a wonderful concept... for those that are looking for the single bi female, try adultfriendfinder. There you can compete with every other single male, but you have a one up... you have a lady... On swinger sites, your attempting the same thing that the other couples with bi females are attempting.. hence the difficulty.
You have a better chance finding Bigfoot, the Loch Ness Monster, Franenstein, and the Yeti playing Monopoly in Wal-Mart, than finding that ellusive SINGLE bi-female on a swinger site. Well maybe you'll have better luck than that... but not by much. If you do meet one, you'll have to pray that she is able to find your letter among all the other couples and single men trying to persuade her to go out with them.
So for those that are still looking on swinger sites, you may have to compromise and hook up with another couple that wants the same thing... then let the two ladies have their fun then you guys can make love to your own lady... I mean that's the reason you wanted to have another girl there in the first place.... for her pleasure... right?
This I guess is over something that I saw this past weekend... there were no words exchanged, no temper-tantrums, nothing overtly hostile at all. I just felt that a guy got pissed at me cause his woman was checking me out and, in a way, was flirting with me. I didn't persue it... however I wanted to so very badly... lol hey she was sexy and very sweet. But I chose the careful path so it would not become an issue. but here is my point about the whole situation....
Ok can you really consider a couple that want just a single bi female, swingers? I don't have a problem with people that want just that... I just don't really consider them swingers. Especially when you get to talking to the couple and the lady is giving me the eye, and flirting to beat the band and the guy starts getting upset that she is flirting... kinda one sided don'tcha think?
This got me thinking... sure there are couples that are honestly just looking for that extra female so the lady of the couple can play with another lady without regrets. HOWEVER if the lady of tha couple decides that she would love to have another male in the bed, I think the guy should let her... What is good for the goose, is good for the gander.
If your in this lifestyle and you get jealous to the point of becoming violent, because your woman is attracted to another man ... then you have no business being in the lifestyle. So just throw away your fantasy about being with two women, if you are not open to the idea that your wife or girlfriend may have the fantasy of being with two guys.
Take a look on SLS or Swappernet, and you will see a HUGE amount of single males, then you will see couples wanting the elusive single bi female, then you will see couples that are up for just about anything.
Some of the ladies that I have talked to are just doing it to please their man. That is very sweet of them, but does it work? I would have to say it might work... but not likely. Also if your looking for just the bi female why are you trying the swinger sites?
Here is a wonderful concept... for those that are looking for the single bi female, try adultfriendfinder. There you can compete with every other single male, but you have a one up... you have a lady... On swinger sites, your attempting the same thing that the other couples with bi females are attempting.. hence the difficulty.
You have a better chance finding Bigfoot, the Loch Ness Monster, Franenstein, and the Yeti playing Monopoly in Wal-Mart, than finding that ellusive SINGLE bi-female on a swinger site. Well maybe you'll have better luck than that... but not by much. If you do meet one, you'll have to pray that she is able to find your letter among all the other couples and single men trying to persuade her to go out with them.
So for those that are still looking on swinger sites, you may have to compromise and hook up with another couple that wants the same thing... then let the two ladies have their fun then you guys can make love to your own lady... I mean that's the reason you wanted to have another girl there in the first place.... for her pleasure... right?
Merry Christmas!!
xoxo
Sunshine