i don't understand what the big deal with dating is, i mean there seems to be so much pressure about it and you don't even know if it'll last till the next one or the one after that and so on. idk why society, american i'm talking about here, in general looks down on ppl that "sleep around"...i guess. i think that if two ppl are going to be in a lasting relationship that you need to know about your partner in all aspects including sexually. there's a lot of benefits that come out of a sexual relationship but i'm not gonna get into them, too sciencey and and to much psychology mumbo jumbo.
i just don't see what the problem is with meeting someone and sleeping with them.
and if both like and enjoy it the 1st time they can make it a regular thing. friends with benefits. ;)
and if they happen to have good pillow talk after sex then they start seeing/hanging out with each other outside of just being sexual.
and when they get to know each other and think they like/love the person then, hey call that a relationship.