Er... I don't see a connection between smoking and hornyness...

no i meant .. since my parents splitting

are you getting laid? could you just be jealous that your mom is?

yep i am lol but good point

The internet age is the bane and half the purpose of my existence. Its great having instant communication but there are times that you wish it was faster than it is and other times its too fast.

Hope everything gets better, I admit that is a shitty thing and an awful way to find out. I will never understand people who cheat on other people. They make me angry for the simple fact I have trouble finding one person and some people are just mean and greedy.

WOW that sux as far as being horny ever since not sure why that is guess the whole fear of doing something and getting caught might be exciting you

wish i knew, n so am i, n yes it isbad

As I understand the mails and pics were just pointers to the revelations on an ongoing affair which matters far more.

On thr issue of you being horny I do not subscribe to the jealousy theory or simply offer my help. Maybe you yearn for a prove that mere sex is worth all the trouble which you are wittnessing.

If you give i to it now you the whole experience might be tainted and result in bad sex... Maybe better take a break form it even if horny.

My theory is simply that whatever is forbidden makes us horny. I got horny just from reading your post.

I thought you would all say that because my mother has betrayed us i feel horny cos i just want to be loved ... thats what all my friends are telling me

my parents got divorced when i was 21 -- i also grew up in a "perfect" happy family. the kinda family that everyone looked too for support and as an example. my dad's affair brought all of that crashing down and change the outlook of everyone in my family drastically. i'd almost have rathered grown up with my parents divorced and been used to that shitty situation instead of having everything i thought was real reversed in the blink of an eye.

with that said -- i also became very horny when all of that went down, and called up a bunch of women i had been playing hard to get with for a couple of years. for me, my reasoning was why the fuck should i try to limit myself and be the perfect good guy when my own parents couldn't.... so i indulged.

doubt any of that helps you or answers your question, but i can empathize with your situation. good luck to you through all of this.

This sounds like the story of the US Soldier who caught his wife out with the Wii - she had her lover stored in there as a friend and they'd been 'playing' online for hours everynight....

Personally I think that the internets not always a good thing, I mean that so many forums these days degenerate into senseless arguments when the folk concerned wouldnt say boo to a goose in real life

Must admit that your story did make me chuckle at the end - sorry

sorry to hear that your parents are splitting