I just need to get this out to SOMEBODY..
so I dated this guy for awhile. I introduced to him to a friend of mine and, well, they've been seeing each other ever since. There was a lot of overlap involved. I was definitely crushed when I found out. but that was a long time ago. to make a long story short, they're still together (more or less) and I have managed to become good friends with the guy again. we work together, so civility is part of the job. friendship with the girl never happened because, well, she never genuinely seemed to care to mend that burned bridge. and she's convinced herself that I'm trying to steal him back. for the record: I am not. not at all. not even a little bit. but she is psychotically jealous--to the point that he can't even mention if I'm in the same room as him without her freaking out. Projecting much? I mean, we work together. We carpool. Sometimes we go out for a drink after work. But this is all a part of my "master plan", according to her. I want nothing to do with their drama. I reached my bullshit limit concerning this situation a very long time ago. But it seems that no matter how much I don't want to be a part of it, I am a part of it.. by merit of simply breathing too close to him. Last night we went out for such a drink and he was on the phone with her all night--and she called him in the morning--convincing her that we weren't fucking. It's gotten to the point that I think I have to decide if even having him as a friend is worth dealing with HER bullshit. ugh.
this is so dumb. but honestly, I'm kind of finding out that most of the friends I've made in this city aren't genuine. and he and I work really well as friends and I understand and accept and know that we are not good as anything more than that. so it would just REALLY suck if I have to lose him too, cuz his psycho bitch girlfriend can't get it together.
anyway.
this chapter in my life is a really weird one. everything is changing.
so I dated this guy for awhile. I introduced to him to a friend of mine and, well, they've been seeing each other ever since. There was a lot of overlap involved. I was definitely crushed when I found out. but that was a long time ago. to make a long story short, they're still together (more or less) and I have managed to become good friends with the guy again. we work together, so civility is part of the job. friendship with the girl never happened because, well, she never genuinely seemed to care to mend that burned bridge. and she's convinced herself that I'm trying to steal him back. for the record: I am not. not at all. not even a little bit. but she is psychotically jealous--to the point that he can't even mention if I'm in the same room as him without her freaking out. Projecting much? I mean, we work together. We carpool. Sometimes we go out for a drink after work. But this is all a part of my "master plan", according to her. I want nothing to do with their drama. I reached my bullshit limit concerning this situation a very long time ago. But it seems that no matter how much I don't want to be a part of it, I am a part of it.. by merit of simply breathing too close to him. Last night we went out for such a drink and he was on the phone with her all night--and she called him in the morning--convincing her that we weren't fucking. It's gotten to the point that I think I have to decide if even having him as a friend is worth dealing with HER bullshit. ugh.
this is so dumb. but honestly, I'm kind of finding out that most of the friends I've made in this city aren't genuine. and he and I work really well as friends and I understand and accept and know that we are not good as anything more than that. so it would just REALLY suck if I have to lose him too, cuz his psycho bitch girlfriend can't get it together.
anyway.
this chapter in my life is a really weird one. everything is changing.
