Aw honey, that sucks. But you're quite the catch, so I'm sure your dry spell will end soon.

I'd date ya.

There are a lot of women who want the same thing, out there. Give them a try.

I'm so grateful that I don't have to worry about dating and such anymore. Getting acquainted with someone is tough. And I agree with you on the one-night things. Not worth it.

I agree with ArtHic and Ladybug. There are a lot of women who are sick of the games and would like to just get to know a decent guy like you. You'll find one.

I haven't had a relationship over 3 months either. I have to agree with how shit one night stands are. I had a girl take me home from a pub once, only to tell me that we weren't going to have sex or any other sexual activity....I guess she invited me back to play scrabble or something but I didn't stick around to find out.

Thank you. I think we're both lucky.

Hmmm....I'm more the exact opposite. Most of my relationships have been longterm and serious vs anything flingy. What can we do to help you develop some tactics for achieving what you want from life coyotemike? My first bit of advice is to lay off the two-timing or married women because it does not seem you like the role of being the occasional crumpet. Of course it sounds like you have laid off since you've had this year long revirginization period. Are you living in a small town? Is the female to male ratio bad where you are? Are you just very shy when you are out and about? Let's try and do something about this, because you seem like a nice guy.

*hugs*

Awww.

Location can be everything. Is there a way of transferring to a different campus without losing ground careerwise. There are lots of friendly women in Texas....not so much me, I'm surly....but lots of friendly southern girls. Because of the heat they are scantily clad.

Dude, I feel your pain

No worries, but you're a bit late on the cookies.

Oh god, one night stands are the worst! I did have my fair share of them though. I guess there must have been a couple that were pretty good. Either that or I'm a masochist.

I think you're wonderful personally....
I did the one night stand thing for a while - I'm the type though that can just shut down emotions and stuff during sex for the most part. I've been surprised a few times though...and have been a typical "girl".

I think that you'd honestly be a catch for someone - so don't sell yourself short