age: 35 (Jan 01, 1977)

MEMBER SINCE: February 2003

occupation: customer services monkey/trainee legal bod

i lost my virginity: but i'm still here

fantasy: just a load of time alone with someone i love

most humbling moment: looking in the mirror

gets me hot: red heads and pierced women, oh my.

heroes: henry rollins

makes me sad: her, because she left me and i can't stop loving her and i hate her for it. not having the common sense to back off and not try to tell my ex how to raise her kid (which looks even dumber in writing), making stupid mistakes, lonliness, not doing enough, being me, stupidity & ignorance in others

makes me happy: getting drunk, you (because i love your eyes), full english breakfasts, sushi, holding a naked someone when you've just woken up and feeling their warm skin against you, having a kid you love call you 'dad' even though you aren't, people who are nice to other people, people who remember who i am, learning new things!!!

body mods: pierced tongue and ampalang. capricorn symbol tattoo by horimasa, tribal shark image over right shoulder and nautical star on stomach by laurence of red sea tattoo

into: music, trying new drinks, meeting new people, trying new stuff, trying to find a new tattoo, debates, law, summer, children, love, catching up with new old friends who i haven't seen for ages

sign: capricorn