Member: austere

austere could it be i'm haunted?

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JUNE 5, 2010 @ 11:28 PM


i wish it was easier to make friends in real life. i am not good at socializing. people are so driven by emotion. i find it hard to interact with them and have them like me. all of my friends in florida were through work. i haven't had non-work friends since i left new york five years ago.
i am not shy. i just don't know how to make friends. i love my brother, but i'd like some friends who aren't already his close friends. how does this work?
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Kedavra

Kedavra

USA
June 2008

JUN 05, 2010 11:37 PM

I know exactly what you mean. I feel socially retarded.

NeNe

NeNe

USA
December 2006

JUN 05, 2010 11:52 PM

It's strange how we perceive ourselves to be as opposed to what others see. When I met you, you seemed to be as personable as you do here.... that's saying a lot. You worry way too much. I consider you a real life friend. smile

PaJami

PaJami

USA
September 2007

JUN 06, 2010 12:09 AM

lol i havent really had non-work or non-SG friends in a long time. I'm trying to figure out how to make friends here because I wont be working for a while and I want friends of my own...I have not a clue how to meet people friend-wise.

pinkie_

pinkie_

United Kingdom
April 2009

JUN 06, 2010 07:29 AM

I like to quote, so here's a quote:

'The only reward of virtue is virtue: the only way to have a friend is to be one.''
Ralph Waldo Emerson - philosopher, essayist, poet.

yennabear

yennabear

Philadelphia, PA
March 2007

JUN 06, 2010 07:58 AM

i have no idea how people meet IRL

NextTuesday

NextTuesday

Kansas City, MO
November 2005

JUN 06, 2010 08:42 AM

Hey if you figure it out lemme know cuz I been here 6 months and have only managed to make 2 friends.

ChristmasJones

ChristmasJones

New London, CT
July 2004

JUN 06, 2010 08:43 AM

It depends really. Some friends stick, some don't. All of my good friends I've known for years. The few new friends I have made have been through business and music work. Just knowing friends through friends.

DownedCity

DownedCity

Washington, DC
May 2007

JUN 06, 2010 09:37 AM

wow, I'm shocked to read this. I always saw you as super charismatic and friendly. well, I'm your friend and we need to hang out this summer.

Tovi

Tovi

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

JUN 06, 2010 05:26 PM

I'm actually kind of the same way. It's hard for me to open up around people, and I'm kind of an observer.
Come to Dallas, and we can be friends =]

Cassiel

Cassiel

Aurora, CO
September 2004

JUN 06, 2010 09:27 PM

NANA LOVES YOU.

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