Member: austere

austere You, the girl who reads, make me want to be everything that I am not.

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MARCH 17, 2010 @ 09:35 PM


i don't know how i'm going to do this. i wish i was better at managing money. i just don't care about it. i loathe it. i detest the need for it, the importance we place on it.

basically, my dad is not letting me take the car with me. i've been making all the payments for the last 3 and a half years, but he made the down payment and its in his name. he's not letting me take it with me. so i have to find a different way to get myself and my belongings to boston. it's going to make it impossible to come up with the $2000 i need to move into the apt my brother found. plus, i was denied the credit card i applied for. i've already seen my credit report. i'm not going to get one.

i'm going to have to borrow money from somebody. i've never borrowed money in my life. i'm lucky that i have good jobs lined up. i'll be able to pay it back in a few weeks, hopefully. i'm even more lucky that i have friends who will probably be able and willing to help me out.

i wish all of my friends who are in similar positions had the fortune to have good jobs and friends who can help them with money. lots of friends are unemployed and in much worse positions than i am. doobster is just one of them.

i am going to be living with my brother and his friend. i'm pretty excited. he lived with me the first year i was in florida... as well as the prior 20 years in the bronx. it will be so great to be close to my brothers again. i love them a lot. it's going to be worth all of the trouble to make it happen. it's only two weeks from today!

also, the show flash forward is awesome.
Comments
alaynah

alaynah

San Marcos, TX
February 2007

MAR 17, 2010 10:19 PM

I'm on the same page as you with money. I don't get it, and don't care to understand. I hope you find a solution, if you been making the payments your pop should lighten up.

PixieStixx

PixieStixx

HOPEFUL

USA

MAR 17, 2010 10:21 PM

oh damn 90 mins...lexanity is coming for a visit friday, most likely, just saying!

cheliamike33

cheliamike33

USA
February 2010

MAR 17, 2010 11:36 PM

its awesome that you will get to live with your brother! hope everything works out, and ur right, money sucks sometimes, or...the importance ppl put on it

Elizadoolittle

Elizadoolittle

United Kingdom
February 2007

MAR 18, 2010 01:51 AM

same
im so crap with money but only really spend on necessity. i dont splurge on clothes etc...
my family have bailed me out a few times, i hate borrowing too. the guilt, urgh.

killary

killary

Chattanooga, TN
December 2007

MAR 18, 2010 08:39 AM

What's your Dad's deal? Making the payments for that amount of time definitely entitles you to ownership of the car, regardless of whose name it is in. From a legal standpoint, I'm saying. If you had a time, money and wherewithall I would suggest you talk to a lawyer... but considering the situation it's probably not worth it :/

Still crap, though. I'm glad you're going to be with your brothers, whom you dig and therefore must be awesome. Also glad you have friends who will help out. I think you're gonna be OK miao!!

RobotFuckFace

RobotFuckFace

USA
December 2007

MAR 18, 2010 08:55 AM

if i had money, i'd give it to you, not loan. good people deserve good things.

Crazzy

Crazzy

USA
August 2006

MAR 22, 2010 10:06 AM

I was just thinking.. Ooooh you will be here soon!eeek

DarkWest

DarkWest

Los Angeles, CA
April 2007

MAR 22, 2010 10:19 PM

awhh my poor wittle austy if you needed $ you could have rang me up wink lol I hope you have good fortune later on in life k cya

DW <33

Doobs

Doobs

Mexico
October 2007

MAR 23, 2010 02:23 AM

i hate not being able to help you out, i hope things work out for the best, much love bro, keep your head up

Mercie

Mercie

SUICIDEGIRL

Maryland, USA

MAR 23, 2010 09:46 AM

Hey hon, I lost about 25% of my phone numbers in my phone switch (long story) and you were one of them. Could you please text me and let me know it's you, and then I can save your phone number again? Thank youuuu!! xoxo

NaterTaterTot

NaterTaterTot

Williamsport, PA
February 2008

MAR 27, 2010 02:04 PM

Its something I've wanted to do for a long time, like since I was in high school. I would always come up with these awesome ideas like having gigantic nerf gun battles in office buildings or holding gigantic no holds barred foam weaponry battles at a park or what not. I just never knew it had a name or that a ton of people would be passionate about it until I saw the movie Role Models last year. Then in chat last night someone quoted it and I got to thinking, why the fuck not!?

I mean who wouldn't have fun on one giant afternoon taking nerf weaponry and holding a gigantic battle? biggrin

Kedavra

Kedavra

USA
June 2008

MAR 27, 2010 10:03 PM

we didn't dye the eggs right at all. the colors came out all weird and we didn't boil them.. oooo well

Kedavra

Kedavra

USA
June 2008

MAR 28, 2010 07:11 PM

we did the dye, but we didn't use vinegar because we were all out. And, we made scrambled eggs. Everyone else ate, I didn't because I don't like eggs

barely

barely

I'm lost
November 2008

MAR 28, 2010 10:11 PM

i miss you a lot.

Bow

Bow

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

MAR 29, 2010 04:16 AM

I think I may be heading the same way! Can't made a word for shit frown

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