Member: _swizzle_

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NOVEMBER 5, 2012 @ 05:53 AM


Posing naked on the internet unfortunately opens you to a world of ridicule and judgement. Regardless of the fact that we supposedly live in a world of equality, people, possibly men more so, will show you less respect than you think you deserve. And i'm sorry, but just stop and think about that for a moment.

I love women and the naked female form. Yes, we were all born naked and should have nothing to be ashamed about. I'm no Greek adonis but am still comfortable with who i am, regardless of the fact that my physique is far from the ideal. If a woman (i am heterosexual) accepts me for who i am, and how i look, (weight, height) then i can only love/respect them more because thay have looked past the physical and have shown an interest in who i ACTUALLY am.

I pay money to be a member of this site and the the whole point of that initially was to admire the various different woman that graced the pages of SG. That is still true and although there are a lot of 'models' that do not appeal to me at all, i only joined originally beacuse of how they look. I couldn't care less about your personality. I'm sure you are a lovely person but you are providing me with a service and i'm paying for that. The chances of a member commenting/complimenting/ on a models blog/set and having her reply with an interest in who he is, is something i think is something completely unrealistic.

A hopeful recently left a blog about people only wanting to see WHAT she looked like and not WHO she was beneath the skin. (Obviously we can see the skin so it's not who is beneath the clothes). I'm sorry, but as a man, although i know i am not speaking for all men, i'm pretty confident that the majority of men (whether they admit it or not) join this site to admire the female form and do not really care about the person, and their beliefs/thoughts.

I'm drunk and i'm rambling but i know what i think and mean. I love woman and i DO respect them, however, i also have an issue with woman who show the world what they look like, (not just their intimate partners) and then complain about being treated like objects. You chose to do that. The person who should love you shouldn't care about how you look and whatever flaws you might percieve to have, but unfortunately men do not want the person they love and are intimate with showing the world what they look like, myself included.

The guy on the internet who only likes blonde/redheads/brunettes/slim/BBW, unfortunately might insult/abuse you because you do not fit his ideal.

That's not your fault , it's his. But please do not cry wolf when that happens.


Comments
snowmiser

snowmiser

United Kingdom
July 2012

NOV 05, 2012 06:50 AM

i mostly agree with that

figmentation

figmentation

I'm lost
December 2003

NOV 05, 2012 07:05 AM

It's official. You can never love or date me. Sorry dude.

Fische

Fische

HOPEFUL

United Kingdom

NOV 05, 2012 11:23 AM

Women may choose to be naked on SG, but that doesn't give men a right to objectify them or think that those women are any less entitled to want their feelings and thoughts listened to.
Yes, this is primarily a site with naked women on. But when it started, it was also a place for members (especially the female ones) to blog and vent and talk. That community aspect is still a major part of SG. So understandably, when a girl blogs but gets nothing back, then posts photos & gets response, it's frustrating.
Sites like Zivity, are all about the girls being naked and that's it. There's no community. That is a site for men to only care about the female form & not give a shit what girls are thinking. This site, really is not.
There are also many, many men who are happy for their women to be naked online. Don't make your opinion sound factual. You may not like it if someone you were with was naked publicly, but others are proud & don't care. Otherwise all nude female models would be single or in unhappy relationships. Which isn't true.

It actually takes a lot to make me angry, but this chauvinistic, backwards blog made me furious actually

LittleFierceOne

LittleFierceOne

Durham, NC
July 2005

NOV 06, 2012 08:05 PM

^^^pretty much what she said. I'm sure you mean well, but you're just perpetuating the same old male-dominated bullshit.

Nude images of women are what led me to this site, but that's not why I joined; I joined for the cool people. Some of my best friends are people I met through SG. The naked women fell by the wayside for me pretty early on. But if someone does catch my eye, the next thing I do is look at their profile and blog; if there's hardly anything there, or it's all vacuous, then I don't bother continuing to look. I, for one, absolutely want to know the woman as a person. I've been lucky to have met and gotten to know a few SGs; but I am glad to know them not because I know what they look like naked, rather because they're fucking cool people; if they were asshats, then it wouldn't matter how beautiful they are, I wouldn't want anything to do with them. Also, erotica or porn is free on the Internet; as noted above, if all you want is nude pix, then this isn't the best site for that.

Also, my wife gets naked in front of people all the time. Okay, not all the time, and usually just with friends, but occasionally in front of some new person to the group, sometimes to that person's great embarrassment. It doesn't bother me at all. She even considered trying to become an SG (way back before the current mess of member review).

Lastly, please clarify your last 3 sentences (last 2 paragraphs); I'm not sure what you're getting at. But, allow me to venture a guess and say this: if some dick is being abusive to a woman, no matter his stupid reason, then she has every right to smash him in the face.

...I hope you're sober now and feeling differently.

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