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JULY 7, 2011 @ 09:37 AM


I want to leave, I want to travel, I want to meet new people, I want to make some real friends, I want to have some crazy nights, I just want to start my life. I dont know if it is myself or something else that is holding me back. Im so tired of being alone, I dont mean not in a relationship, I just mean completely alone all the time. I dont have any friends, I never get invited anywhere, no calls or texts, nothing. I sit in my room with zero contact with the rest of the world. Most exciting thing I have been doing recently is take long drives in the mountains by myself. Im beginning to wonder if Im just going to be one of those people. Am I going to be a hermit? Living in the woods by myself?
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suispud1

suispud1

Dallas, TX
January 2010

JUL 07, 2011 09:47 AM

I can't believe you'll wind up alone, Someday sometime someone will find you or you will find someone. Don't doubt me. smile

Pax_

Pax_

HOPEFUL

Irvine, CA

JUL 07, 2011 09:51 AM

I know what you mean. I feel the same way. Just gotta keep believing that things are going to get better.

Nanette

Nanette

USA
June 2008

JUL 07, 2011 09:51 AM

maybe you need a change of scenery?

Jinn

Jinn

I'm lost
October 2008

JUL 07, 2011 10:03 AM

Hmmm I am similar as well I have "friends" but spent much of my life doing things alone....not so much now almost 40 with kids etc. The only advice I can offer is be the first too make contact and be open too people you wouldn't normally think you would have anything in common with. Be bold and brave the rest will follow.smile
PS would love to be your friend in the fleshkiss

Fische

Fische

HOPEFUL

United Kingdom

JUL 07, 2011 11:21 AM

I think being alone is good sometimes; gives you time to think and reflect. If you wanna make friends though, start some kinda hobbie is always good or just getting out and doing stuff where you expose yourself to other people. And if you still end up alone; get a cat ! smile

Minks

Minks

HOPEFUL

USA

JUL 07, 2011 11:34 AM

things will get better, but sometimes being alone is sooo good for you, simply because you learn alot about yourself. I feel the exact same way though.. like I want to get my life started & start moving, travelling, etc. I hope you feel better hunny <3 smile

TheFreddy

TheFreddy

Chicago, IL
February 2004

JUL 07, 2011 12:18 PM

You just have to put yourself out there. If people aren't going to come to you, then you come to them. I don't it's tough (believe me, I find it hard to do sometimes too). But it'll pay off in the end.

SakuraRedd

SakuraRedd

SUICIDEGIRL

Greece

JUL 07, 2011 12:46 PM

aww sweety loneliness is a hard thing and especially for a sensitive and great person like you!
try to open to others and i'm sure that many people will fall in love with you and yr personalitty..i believe that things will go better for yousmile smile

saillesong

saillesong

Eastlake, OH
September 2008

JUL 07, 2011 01:16 PM

No don't be a hermit. frown Come to ohio.biggrin

Hysterian

Hysterian

Seattle, WA
April 2011

JUL 07, 2011 01:23 PM

You will not be alone forever! smile It's good to enjoy life, do what makes you happy and then when you least expect it, it will all come together!

justpassingby

justpassingby

Brandon, FL
June 2011

JUL 07, 2011 03:05 PM

I'll come see you when I swing into Denver next month and we'll rock the casbah!

___

___

I'm lost
December 2010

JUL 07, 2011 04:57 PM

I know how you feel frown I have few close friends, and it can get lonely at times. It's too bad you live all the way in Colorado! Hopefully things will get better for you though!

BlackHeartDown

BlackHeartDown

USA
October 2010

JUL 07, 2011 11:53 PM

No one can blame you for wanting a change a scenery and some new friends. Especially under the threat of being kicked out. I take it the employment search hasn't gone well. Hang on.

_Indica

_Indica

USA
December 2010

JUL 08, 2011 04:00 PM

Oh hun you sound like your describing me! Seriously i always joke with everyone when i grow up , I wanna be a hermit! Take a looooong drive one day to North Dakota and we will shoot some pics and have some fun! Then we will both have found at least one other hermit friend!

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