All you lovely people here who are divorced, seperated, of whatever else you call it, I need your help. Don't want to bore with details, but got into a huge fight with the ex a few days ago. It really bothered me that it bothered me. I dont want to get back together and if it wasnt for my great kids, I'd tell her to go fuck herself. Every time an arguement happens, she talks about taking me to court. No paperwork has been done regarding our split, but am i going to get fucked? Im scared shitless.