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MARCH 10, 2008 @ 05:09 AM

Well, by golly, it must be time to update.

I was doing pretty well with the monthly update routine but it's been getting hard to manage. So, y'know, forgive me'n'stuff. Or not. As you please.

Here goes.


1. Airports and Hotels

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So, yeah, me whining about travel. I travel a lot with my job, and it's something you get to look back on as part of your life's long journey. But it's a collection of short, intense trips that don't involve much relaxation or tourist-ing.

Last September: a week in Taiwan. I was in Taipei in 2003, so it was almost 4 years to the day that I went back. This time I saw a little more, including missing a fast train south and catching a slow train by mistake instead. I kept a few people waiting, but it all worked out. I did get a day free in Taipei to walk around, spend some time in some museums and grounds, and climbing Taipei 101, from which you can see a few shots below.
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November -- Indonesia. Not quite two weeks, spent between the islands of Lombok and Timor (always via Bali).

January started a trip that involved spending five out of six consecutive weeks in hotels and airports. It started with three weeks in Vietnam (Hanoi and Can Tho) and then TheFuckOffGirl came over and we spent a week of time off. Our plan to spend a weekend in central Vietnam was somewhat hampered by her getting sick in Hanoi, but we did get a few very pleasant days in Hue. I don't have the photos from there loaded on the laptop, but I'll post them at some point.
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A close shave flying out of Ho Chi Minh city. I managed to leave my laptop back at the hotel. Getting back from the airport to central HCMC and back again in time to check in was, shall we say, stressful. TheFuckOffGirl was less than impressed, but we made the flight.

Then there was a week in Canberra. Then a week back in Sydney, then to Indonesia and a series of hotels, ranging from comfortable tourist-friendly places in Bali to what were close to camping huts without flush toilets. Then another drama re getting home -- our flight was cancelled, and three of us had to buy tickets on Garuda to fly home via Melbourne. Good times.

Now I'm back home, more or less. At least until mid-year. Maybe I'll be going to Sweden, we'll see.



2. Work Dramarama

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Where to start?

My psychopathic colleague is, I think, self-immolating. He's trying to fight with everyone (mostly to undermine me), but it seems like things are collapsing around him. The new Dean (he started today -- see previous entry where we were about to interview the candidates, and yes, that's how long since I last updated) is going to be fairly unprepared to tolerate such manic and unhinged drama-queenishness.

It makes for some interesting email exchanges while I'm in hotel rooms in other countries.

Other than that, things appear to be going quite well, both for TheFuckOffGirl and myself. Change is in the air, and I think it will be for the good.



3. Ner Fus Nar Gool

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The popular part of my updates is undoubtedly where I tell people the latest anecdote about TheFuckOffGirl. So here we go. On the weekend, she borrowed my laptop and ended up IMing with an old SG friend for an extended time. Later, said friend did confirm that "she was everything I expected." She gives good IM. (She's in Melbourne right now and responded to my message tonight with You? Again?) She's a charmer. We've been watching quite a bit of The West Wing lately, just FYI. I like the show but this more to her instigation than mine.

So Ner Fus Nar Gool is her Star Wars name. Don't ask why, it just is. When I opened my suitcase in Vietnam on the first night I was there, she'd left me a little love note on the top of my clothes, signed Ner Fus Nar Gool". You really don't need to know the origins of the name, just to know I was totally charmed.

She has lately taken the expression "Right to die" and applied it to the idiots she sees around her in traffic. If a pedestrian wanders out on the street in dangerous proximity to the car, she opines that they would be "right to die". Occasionally she yells it out the window.

Then there's The Glom. That's when I'm in her vicinity when she's at her own computer, and I am expected to "glom on", which is a combination standing hug and nuzzle. It is the act of a supplicant, and she acts appropriately haughty and imperious. I'm doing well if I can get her to melt.



4. Miscellany

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Lately, I've mostly seen movies by watching them on the plane.

I watched "The 3:10 to Yuma" on the plane back from 'Nam, when everything was dark and most people were sleeping. It was pretty disturbing in those circumstances.

Lastly: I've tried reformatting the fux0red text in here, but it's not behaving. *sigh* Or maybe, now, it is behaving.


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Brooklyn

Brooklyn

SUICIDEGIRL

New York, USA

MAY 05, 2008 09:03 PM

I'm glad that you liked the Fatality + Ginary set that I shot! Thanks for the lovely comment!

cleverthings

cleverthings

Australia
February 2006

MAY 06, 2008 06:30 PM

UPDATE!!!!! *growls*

hotcurry

hotcurry

Los Angeles, CA
June 2004

MAY 07, 2008 03:46 PM

I'm so jealous of your travels. love

cleverthings

cleverthings

Australia
February 2006

MAY 07, 2008 05:23 PM

So, as you know my original plan to visit was cancelled. BUT I will most likely be down from Fri, 30 May to Tues, 3 June. Catching up is a must. smile Checking with Miss BeaEffEff as the plan is to stay with her in her sweet new pad so dates are still tentative, but checking with all and sundry to give plenty of warning! You free? kiss

Vanessa

Vanessa

SUICIDEGIRL

New Mexico, USA

MAY 07, 2008 05:33 PM

Husbbaaaaaaaaaaaandfrown

Milli

Milli

Australia
July 2006

MAY 08, 2008 08:36 PM

Milli

Milli

Australia
July 2006

MAY 09, 2008 04:19 AM

No i did help I got hit on the head and forgot every thing tongue

cleverthings

cleverthings

Australia
February 2006

MAY 11, 2008 04:38 PM

Noice. smile Plans will come your way!! smile

My plans to exercise lots begin today!!

Seriously, for a laugh, click on this website. Luis Pinto is my dance instructor in hip hop, and he's a great dancer and a great teacher. Unfortunately, he also has pretty much the WORST (or perhaps BEST, depending on your criteria) website in the world. If ever I feel a bit down, I just go to megajam.com.au and check out the "Megajam Dancers". HILARIOUS. But if you want to see a sample of the sort of dancing I learn (though the sample stuff is beginners and I am intermediate now so am doing a lot of floorwork - the balancing on one arm stuff!), click on the "Megajam Trailers" and watch the videos.

Oh, and the TV ads on there are equally crazy. Cheese, cheese and more cheese. Insanity. surreal surreal

Alibi

Alibi

Australia
March 2006

MAY 14, 2008 04:49 AM

Oh, for sure. I will be wearing leopard print and tattoos. Hmm.. that could be anyone.

d_day

d_day

San Bernardino, CA
July 2002

MAY 16, 2008 07:12 AM

Updates are over rated.

hypnotyst

hypnotyst

Australia
January 2008

MAY 16, 2008 08:31 PM

*applauds*

Very well put.

I like being energised by my frustration at something/someone - and that's where people like Dworkin are infinitely useful, I think, if you use them as fuel towards doing things differently, taking the 'good stuff' and running with it, and fireblasting the shit out of the rest. You know enough about my views on sex generally that would suggest which parts of Dworkin's thinking I'd particularly like to aim a flamethrower at. I guess my thinking is that she doesn't NEED to hinder the development of feminist thought - she can be an energising influence if enough people are angry enough to react against her. Best bit of JS Mill's free-speech theory right there... let the simplistic people spur you on to do good as you learn from their mistakes.

Or so I'm telling myself - am drafting the introduction to my thesis and endeavouring to justify my desire to flamethrow most previous academics' work. smile

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(But you know that at heart, and for better or worse, I'm a Germaine junkie and that's that. wink )

hypnotyst

hypnotyst

Australia
January 2008

MAY 16, 2008 09:52 PM

See, I still think she's really useful, and thus I can't "reject" her. She's fodder for better things, I think. So while she's a demented puritanical psycho, as you said, she's the psycho we had to have. And I'm hardly going to say 100% of her entire oeuvre was worthless, evil or demented. The large proportion that was, though, was worth it not so people can revere it (they shouldn't, but do) but so they can kick it in the shins, hard, again and again. A straw man can make wonders for counterargument and Dworkin was that in spades. So "ditching" isn't the project, and shouldn't be, because erasing the past is impossible and redundant. Using frustration for energy, and generating the forward thrust of change and development, requires that past as fodder. That might be too touchy-feely but we should be grateful for the people we bitterly despise if that energy is channelled positively.

In this way, I am grateful for Norman Mailer, even though I cheered when I found out he'd died. whatever smile

Marni

Marni

SUICIDEGIRL

Australia

MAY 17, 2008 07:29 AM

thank you for a very giggly time last night! wink

IDGAS

IDGAS

Jackson Heights, NY
March 2004

MAY 17, 2008 07:17 PM

My gifts to you



I have a (growing) collection smile

IDGAS

IDGAS

Jackson Heights, NY
March 2004

MAY 17, 2008 08:11 PM

It is like skipping commercials if you have TiVo, you can still look it just cuts out a lot of foolishness.

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