The spooning thing is obvious, but he should NOT be "the guy" making other guys jealous, he is calling her beautiful and going out on a date? FUCK no. Do not let him defend himself or weasle out. His intentions on this are terrible.
And the nap thing is obviously tandem also. Which is trouble.
Just .. uuuuugggggggggghhhhhh, I swear to God, this made MY stomach hurt, in that bad way .. the bad butterflies. Because I have found similar things before, and gotten that feeling.