I completely feel you on this one... It's the story of every 'nice guy'. I do the same shit, I'm very involved with my friendships; I invest myself immensely and upfront. Then, especially if flirting ensues (which it often does) I get the ideas *dreams* going of what could be or how I might end up with him. It's a serious struggle once you release it's not going to happen or not going to work, then you (possibly) lose that friend (which is the worse part) and you feel heartbroken. Like I've said, you just have to attempt to keep it simple, go with the flow, have a Wiz moment lol

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