the timing isn't perfect but if you're fairly sure (ie positive on a pregnancy test) then you should tell him, if you aren't sure and you tell him you are and end up not being pregnant it would just make things worse i suppose

Thats what i figured... just needed an outside perspective on shit ya know

well the timing blows but it is what it is. id just stick with telling him the truth. isnt always what ya wanna hear but it beats lying thats for sure. goodluck.

Possibility of an abortion? Do you want to keep it? How long have you and him been together? What are the percentages it could be his or the other guys? How far along are you?

he might be hurt unless you he feels an open relationship is ok and you can raise this child together.... but, I find getting those things out in the open the sooner the better... it will ebb your stress level and be better for the child.

Z3180... Yeah thats how I feel. But sometimes my feelings tell me to do stupid things like addmitting I cheated in the begining. :/ But couldnt live with knowing I did that an him loving me how he does an me not sayin something. Now I wish I hadn't... But cant change it.

MillerTime1981.. GOD NO!!! I'm a firm believer if you make your bed you have to sleep in that mug. I couldnt dream of having an abortion. Not unless it was a high risk pregnancy an me or the baby could die an they were almost posative it would happen. An even then not sure I could do that... I dont know how far along I am. Took a test last week an it was posative. So was ganna make an apt. an make sure before I tell him. And theres no way its anyone else's. I cheated 2years ago when we started dating. It would be 3yrs oct. 23 if we werent on the outs right now. Hoping i can fix it. But not looking too good. :/

LittleJohn22... I know he would stick by me an raise the baby even if we dont work out. Thats not the issue. Its us being on the outs that is. :/ But thats my fault for being honest. And I hear ya. I feel the same way. the sooner he knows the better. But I want to know for sure before I say anything about it. an thats only b/c i'v had a false pos. b4