I know almost nothing about the details of what you're going through. However, Im sorry you are going through it. And I know about being overwhelmed and paralyzed. I've been there on more than one occasion. I'm actually dealing with a small bout of inertia this week....And what I have found works is anything. Do something. Pay a bill you've been meaning to pay, put away something thats just laying on a kitchen counter. I heard someone say "If you feel like an ant, do ant things". And just plug along.

MAybe you need to find a therapist to help you move some of your internal "stuff" out of the way. That has worked for me also.

I hope this didn't sound like a lecture. I'm tired, and typing it has helped me. I'm cleaning my apartment, and finding homes for items my father left me, after dying from Cancer in November. I received a bunch of things yesterday, and its just emotionally and physically overwhelming, after moving my mom into an apartment since she has moved back to Maine from CA.

So I know about feeling overwhelmed. So I grab one thing, and move it. Take a sip of coffee, and repeat.

Be well.

Michael

You've got bigger and better things to kick ass, Rhana. You are stronger than you give yourself credit for!

I'm sure it's got to be tough,
but maybe try to look at this as an opportunity,
to find something new, to embrace a more minimalist approach . . .

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I know I wouldn't turn my nose up at that . . .

That's a drag that after your history together he didn't even give you a wave.
Start decorating the condo the way you like and make it completely your own. It will take time.

It's all still pretty new and difficult to take in. Give yourself more time to adjust or maybe consider counseling or some self-help books. There is plenty of wisdom and support out there.

Come on baby, can't believe you've still got a thing for that!! seems like he's moved on...time you did..

xoxox

you can do it..I just know it...life had bigger and better things in store for you

thank you.
They're rather amazing aren't they?
Still, one is all I could possibly handle.