Today as been you of those days.I paid for two of my daughters rent,phone,car insurance,etc as well as my bills today.They work,but don't earn enough because their boyfriends are deadbeats.I have talked (and smacked) both of the guys before,but it does no good.I have told them when I was their age I had three kids (i have five altogether) and two jobs and my ex-wife worked too.These guys are part of making the my grandkids,but they don't see that.I wish my daughters would dump them.I won't help pay for anything,but the kids don't need to suffer bacause of their fathers are lazydrunks.Also,my girlfriend as left me for I help my kids out.I have money for us too.She did understand that my kids and grandkids are important part of my life,plus a spend alot time with her.I told her from the beganing how things where.Oh,well it did last a 10 moths.Ok,I am done for now.Everyone have a great day.~Raziel (P.S.For those who keep asking-my name is Hebrew for GODS SECRET or The secret of GOD or look it up)