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MAY 5, 2008 @ 05:51 PM

There is only one person I keep in touch with that still lives in my hometown. His name, no shit, is Robert E. Lee, and he is probably the coolest dude I have had the pleasure to know. He is an absolute rolodex of musical knowledge, and very dry and sarcastic, which is one of the reasons I think he and I have been friends since about 6th grade. He married a really cool girl about 8 years ago, and they have a brilliant two year old son. I think it was back around last October that Robert called me to let me know that his brother had committed suicide in his parent's home, which really shook the family up. At the time, Robert's father was in remission from cancer, but after Jeff died he really went downhill. The cancer came back very aggressively about 2 months ago, and he passed away Saturday.

Robert's dad, Dr. Lee, was a fucking riot. Cussed like a sailor, drank Michelob beer, drove a convertible 442, and loved to listen to the Chi-Lites. Totally opposite of Robert's mom Shirley, who he had been married to for 47 years. I can't even imagine what she is going through, losing a son and her husband in a 6 month span.

Robert called my mom when his dad passed, and told her to call me and let me know. He knew I would be at work when it all happened. So I talked to her Saturday night and then my phone literally died. Dead. No more phone for Shannen. I got a fat online deal for a new phone, but it will not be here til tomorrow, and I feel like shit because I can't get in touch with Robert and see how he is doing. My mom was going to go to the visitation for Dr. Lee tonight, but I got an email from her earlier and she has food poisoning and now can't go. So I can't call my sick mom or my friend. I feel so helpless and out of touch without a phone, it is kind of disturbing.

Luckily I emailed my best friend Kathy, who is kinda close to Robert too, and she got on the ball and ordered a nice plant to be delivered to the funeral tomorrow. I hope it turns out nice, and Robert will know that I am thinking about him and his family. This sucks. I have a sneaky feeling I will have to go through this with my dad soon, and I am not looking forward to that.

In happier news, I am going to see Loretta Lynn in June, and I don't want to hear any shit about it tongue
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nikonphoto80

nikonphoto80

Lexington, KY
December 2004

MAY 05, 2008 09:33 PM

that is so horrible, damn I cant imagine what everyone is going thru right now, I mean damn that just isn't fair, losing to close family members in only half a years time. I would bet that losing his son broke his heart and that is what brought him down.

I hope you are wrong about your dad, I hope he lives for a very long time.

Did I ever tell you that my mom lives like less then 5 miles from where Loretta Lynn grew up? I've been in the house where she grew up and meet her brother, at the time it was just the little house there by it's self but now they have a big sign and a gate and everything.

rabiddedbare

rabiddedbare

I'm lost
February 2006

MAY 05, 2008 10:46 PM

HUGHUGHUGHUGHUGHUGHUGHUGHUG
For you an him...*sigh* frown

Hey I like Loretta Lynn tongue

james13

james13

Dallas, TX
August 2005

MAY 05, 2008 10:50 PM

I saw Loretta Lynn at the Grand Ole Opry once, she is awesome.

I'm sure Robert will know that you are supporting him in your thoughts. Hope you get to have a good chat with him as soon as the phone is working.

guitargeek

guitargeek

Shawnee, OK
November 2003

MAY 06, 2008 01:53 AM

Loretta Lynn is fucking awesome.

eternalpain75

eternalpain75

Murrells Inlet, SC
November 2005

MAY 06, 2008 04:25 PM

Sorry to hear about that.

nikonphoto80

nikonphoto80

Lexington, KY
December 2004

MAY 07, 2008 08:14 AM

Thanks, she is a nice lady, she took care of me a lot when I was a kid. I know on Sunday my mom took her out for Mexican food and they sang happy birthday to her and put a big Mexican hat on her and put ice cream all over her face.

Well I'm sure he would be ok with the dogs, his cage is really tall so he could stay on the top levels and even if he was on the bottom levels the dogs couldn't get him, they are very little dogs, but I'm going to keep the cage in my bedroom so I will not have to worry about him.

Well I hope the show is fun.

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