Yeah, that sort of feeling is awful, and time and separation are the only cures. Rationality does nothing -- damn frustrating it is.

-TTm

I am so sorry you are hurting. I am sorry that he lied and betrayed everything you thought you had. I am so sorry that his selfishness is making you suffer. I wish I could hit him really really hard.

I am sorry honey. That never feels good. This whole heart thing sure does suck at times. It is one of those things that doesn't allow you to really just wake up one morning and say ok I am done. It would be nice if it was. I just want to say, take care of yourself during this time. Don't get so wrapped up that you for get about you honey.

Time is the worse part
One thing o used to do was literally picture him stomping on my heart to get it to stop feeling for him.

It is hard when who we loved isnt who we thought
It is like your brain can't believe they are the same person

I know exactly how you feel - and I know how hard it is to let go................

*hearthug*

Having been on the receiving end of your advice, knowing how direct and honest it was, if you turned the mirror on yourself and tried to advise yourself in this case, what do you think you would say?

Excuse the horrible run-on sentence there. And I'm really sorry you have to be going through this. You really do deserve better, darlin.