I totally hate my dreads at the moment. I just feel like they look SO shitty and nothing I do helps. There are two in particular that are making me crazy, the ones that are just above my ear and they don't tuck behind it properly and are super loose at the top. I back combed the shit out of the roots of one yesterday and it's like I didn't even do anything to it. It's really upsetting. I'm not sure exactly what I should do at this point. I might buy some tightening spray.. I don't know. I'm still using wax on them, I know some people say don't use wax, it makes it worse etc, but my hair is SO fine that if I didn't use wax it would never dread up. it has absolutely no texture. Anyway, They are just making me so frustrated.