That is weird about your old friend messaging you like that..best just to say nothing to it and if she's married keep back...Sorry to hear about the car problems and insurance companies are legalized robbery in my opinion with what they charge....it doesn't mean you're getting boring having a sensible car,if you still keep the other one...Sorry to hear about your friend too,I hope that he's better soon or they can find someway to cure him or give him something to help him xxx